Q&A Recovery Library

Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally.
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Video icon Q&A What Is My Role in My Husband’s Healing Journey If He Has Been a Serial Cheater for Our Whole Dating & Marriage Relationship?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself with an Addict That Is Not Seeking Out Help for Himself?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal With My Sexual Addiction When Everything I’ve Tried Isn’t Working?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Understand the Devastation I’m Experiencing Because of Them Giving Me An STD?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Commit to This Marriage When I Promised Myself I’d Never Stay with Someone Who Cheated On Me?
Video icon Q&A Are the Requests I’m Making to Feel Safe Unreasonable?
Video icon Q&A Can You Address Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Feel Unsafe When My Wife Is around the Affair Partner without Me?
Video icon Q&A Is Minimal Contact the Right Thing to Do at This Moment?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get My Conflict-Avoidant Spouse to Do Anything?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal from the Profound Pain Caused by My Unfaithful Spouse Treating Me with Disdain for So Long?
Video icon Q&A Can My Wife Be In Limerence Twice with the Same Man or Is It Love?
Video icon Q&A How Long until My Husband Will Stop Focusing On Himself and Start Showing Up for Me?
Video icon Q&A Do I Have the Right to Know What My Spouse Is Doing to Monitor Me?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Even Buckle Down and Finish EMS Online Knowing That Essentially I Was Discarded?
Video icon Q&A What Would Be Best for His Healing and Our Reconciliation?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Begin to Sift through the Wreckage after an Affair and Determine the Value of What Was Lost?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Best Way to Set Boundaries in the Workplace?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible to Not Love or Miss Someone after a 3-Year Affair?
Video icon Q&A Are the Boundaries My Mate Has Placed on Our Conversations a Red Flag in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A What If I Question Whether I Want to Be Married or Not?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Show Empathy Towards My Wife after Her Revenge Affair When She Refuses to Give Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A At This Point I Just Rather Not Have Sex at All. Is There Something That I Can Do to Change This?
Video icon Q&A Should My Husband Contact the Affair Partner to Break Things off If They Haven’t Had Contact in Almost a Year?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Understand How My Husband Can Be Apathetic toward the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Navigate Seeing the Emotional Part of the Affair Differently?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop the Triggers and Reminders When Every Day They Are There?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Best Way to Acknowledge the Work My Husband Is Doing Without Giving Him Too Much Praise?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Continue to Be Empathetic to Her If in Spite of All I Do, It Is Still Not Enough?
Video icon Q&A Is It Common for Betrayed Spouses to Have Trouble with Depression and Lack of Focus Which Detrimentally Affects Their Work?
Video icon Q&A I Understand the Importance of Not Being Defensive about the Infidelity or Betrayal, but Does That Extend into Every Aspect of Our Lives?
Video icon Q&A Why Would He Go Back to the Same Person He Thinks Is So Nasty?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Betrayal When the Affair Partner Is So Close with My Husband’s Family?
Video icon Q&A How Did ADHD and Other Factors Like Depression and Anxiety Contribute to My Affairs?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move past Something I Love Being Shared with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Can You Elaborate More on Type Four Affairs?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong to Still Be in This Much Pain?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Have Hope for My Mates Recovery with Those Odds?
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Still Respond Physically like I Am Lying When I’m Telling the Truth?
Video icon Q&A Are Any Lasting Feelings for the Affair Partner Permitted?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Navigate Recovery If My Mate Doesn’t Believe They Are Committing Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A If There Is a Future for Our Marriage, Would You See the Journey to Be Any Different than Normal?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Create a Coherent Story If the Details from My Mate Are Always Changing?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Let Go of What Happened and Fully Re-Engage with My Mate?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle a New Betrayal Immediately after EMS Weekend?
Video icon Q&A I’m Losing Compassion for My Mate. What Can I Do?
Video icon Q&A Is It My Fault That They Did What They Did?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get past the Shame and Hurt?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When My Spouse Is Making Me Choose between Her and My Faith?
Video icon Q&A How Does One Find a Reputable and Affordable Polygraph Test Provider?