Handling Discovery

We call it “D-day” for a reason. These articles will help you understand the process of disclosure and how to keep the process safe.

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Video icon Q&A Why Does the Affair Partner Want to Meet Me?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Differentiate between What Secrets Are Safe to Keep and Which Should Be Shared?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Fix the Problem of Trickle Truth?
Video icon Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Numb after so Much Trickle Truth?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Begin to Trust with All of the Trickle Truth Happening?
Video icon Q&A Do You Have Advice for Safely Reaching Full Disclosure without a Polygraph?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get over Never Knowing When the Affair Started?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible to Reach Ground Zero If My Spouse Doesn’t Believe That I’ve Told Him Everything?
Video icon Q&A Is This Level of Detail Healthy for Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know If My Mate Is Being Honest When Discussing the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Is It Best to Just Keep Information about the Infidelity between the Two of Us?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Trust What the Wayward Spouse Is Disclosing to Me?
Video icon Q&A Should I Cancel My Polygraph Due to My Anxiety Level?
Video icon Q&A Are There Differences in Recovery Based on When Discovery Happens?
Video icon Q&A Should We Stop the Trickle Effect of Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A What Is a Normal Reaction from the Wayward When Discovering Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A Would This Level of Detail Hurt Our Recovery Process?
Video icon Q&A How Should the Wayward Spouse Respond to New Discoveries by the Betrayed Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Convince My Spouse That I've Disclosed All of the Details?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get My Spouse to Open up about Their Affair?
Video icon Q&A Is My Spouse Being Truthful with Me?
Video icon Q&A Do We Tell Our Son about the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Heal When the Wayward Spouse Cannot Recall the Details That You Need?
Video icon Q&A Should I Tell My Husband That I Know More Details about His Affair Than I've Led on To?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Create Safety When Talking about the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Should We Disclose the Affair and Resulting Triggers to Family Members?
Video icon Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Heartbroken on the D-Day Anniversary?
Video icon Q&A Is It Healthy for the Betrayed to Know Intimate Details about the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Why Can't We Talk about the Affair Partner with out the Wayward Spouse Shutting Down?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible for the Wayward Spouse to Not Disclose Fully, yet Find Themselves Fully Recommitted after Discovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle Discovery When the Affair Happened So Long Ago?
Video icon Q&A Can I Move Forward If I'm Concerned about Honesty?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Be Transparent in a Way That Doesn't Hurt My Mate?
Video icon Q&A How Much Time Is Reasonable to Talk per Day or Even per Week to Process a 10 Year Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband's Dishonesty?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Avoid Flooding during Hard Conversations?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Reach Full Disclosure with Pornography?
Video icon Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about My Behavior?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A Should I Give My Mate Information They Specifically Asked Me Not to Share?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Believe?
Video icon Q&A Am I Being Overly Sensitive about My Mate's Views towards the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong for Asking My Husband to Be Transparent?
Video icon Q&A Is There Any Hope for Truth?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Overcome the Rage Resulting from the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What Happened?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move Forward If My Mate Won't Admit What Happened?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know What to Believe?
Video icon Q&A Are Polygraph's Valid and Should My Husband Take One?
Video icon Q&A Why Can't My Husband Face That This Was an Affair?