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Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 552 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Do We Tell Our Son about the Affair? 8/23/2019 Q&A How Do You Heal When the Wayward Spouse Cannot Recall the Details That You Need? 8/23/2019 Q&A Should I Tell My Husband That I Know More Details about His Affair Than I've Led on To? 8/23/2019 Q&A How Can We Create Safety When Talking about the Affair? 8/20/2019 Q&A Should We Disclose the Affair and Resulting Triggers to Family Members? 8/20/2019 Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Heartbroken on the D-Day Anniversary? 8/20/2019 Q&A Is It Healthy for the Betrayed to Know Intimate Details about the Affair Partner? 8/14/2019 Q&A Why Can't We Talk about the Affair Partner with out the Wayward Spouse Shutting Down? 8/14/2019 Q&A Is It Possible for the Wayward Spouse to Not Disclose Fully, yet Find Themselves Fully Recommitted after Discovery? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Do We Handle Discovery When the Affair Happened So Long Ago? 8/06/2019 Q&A Can I Move Forward If I'm Concerned about Honesty? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Can I Be Transparent in a Way That Doesn't Hurt My Mate? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Much Time Is Reasonable to Talk per Day or Even per Week to Process a 10 Year Affair? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband's Dishonesty? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Do I Avoid Flooding during Hard Conversations? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Do We Reach Full Disclosure with Pornography? 7/03/2019 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about My Behavior? 7/03/2019 Q&A How Do We Handle Disclosure? 6/26/2019 Q&A Should I Give My Mate Information They Specifically Asked Me Not to Share? 6/19/2019 Q&A What Do I Believe? 6/19/2019 Q&A Am I Being Overly Sensitive about My Mate's Views towards the Affair Partner? 6/19/2019 Q&A Am I Wrong for Asking My Husband to Be Transparent? 6/11/2019 Q&A Is There Any Hope for Truth? 6/11/2019 Q&A How Can I Overcome the Rage Resulting from the Affair? 6/11/2019 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What Happened? 5/21/2019 Q&A How Do I Move Forward If My Mate Won't Admit What Happened? 5/15/2019 Q&A How Do I Know What to Believe? 5/08/2019 Q&A Are Polygraph's Valid and Should My Husband Take One? 5/08/2019 Q&A Why Can't My Husband Face That This Was an Affair? 5/08/2019 Q&A Is It Possible He Is Being Honest? 5/08/2019 Q&A Should We Disclose the AP's Personal Information to Our Mate? 5/08/2019 Q&A Is It Safe to Believe My Mate? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Can I Show Empathy without Getting Defensive? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Get Complete Disclosure on How Deep This Sex Addiction Goes? 4/30/2019 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand My Recovery Timeline? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Discern What Is True in All of This? 4/17/2019 Q&A Is It Safe to Stay with Someone Who Hasn't Fully Disclosed the Affair? 4/10/2019 Q&A How Do I Get My Husband to Tell the Truth? 4/10/2019 The Power of Small Groups 4/10/2019 Q&A How Do I Enforce Boundaries While Encouraging Transparency? 4/03/2019 Q&A How Can I Heal Given This Reality? 4/03/2019 Q&A How Do I Forgive the Unforgivable? 3/27/2019 Q&A How to We Share Our Story with Our Children? 3/20/2019 Q&A Why Is the Timeline of the Affair so Important to Me? 2/13/2019 Q&A How Do We Get to a Safe Place with Details I Can't Remember? 2/06/2019 Q&A Why Does My Mate Say He Can't Remember Details of the Affair? 1/30/2019 Q&A Is His Explanation Probable? 1/28/2019 Q&A Should I Disclose to the Affair Partner's Spouse? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Apply Boundaries and Reconcile? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Can I Make Disclosure Safe? 1/23/2019 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »
