Handling Discovery

We call it “D-day” for a reason. These articles will help you understand the process of disclosure and how to keep the process safe.

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Video icon Q&A Is It Possible He Is Being Honest?
Video icon Q&A Should We Disclose the AP's Personal Information to Our Mate?
Video icon Q&A Is It Safe to Believe My Mate?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Show Empathy without Getting Defensive?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get Complete Disclosure on How Deep This Sex Addiction Goes?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Understand My Recovery Timeline?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Discern What Is True in All of This?
Video icon Q&A Is It Safe to Stay with Someone Who Hasn't Fully Disclosed the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get My Husband to Tell the Truth?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Enforce Boundaries While Encouraging Transparency?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Heal Given This Reality?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Forgive the Unforgivable?
Video icon Q&A How to We Share Our Story with Our Children?
Video icon Q&A Why Is the Timeline of the Affair so Important to Me?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Get to a Safe Place with Details I Can't Remember?
Video icon Q&A Why Does My Mate Say He Can't Remember Details of the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Is His Explanation Probable?
Video icon Q&A Should I Disclose to the Affair Partner's Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Apply Boundaries and Reconcile?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Make Disclosure Safe?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Get to Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate with Discovery?
Video icon Q&A How Important Is It to Deal with All Betrayals Whether before or after Marriage?
Video icon Q&A When Should a Betrayed Spouse Stop Pushing for Answers to Questions?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle New Details That I Remember?
Video icon Q&A How Should the Betrayed Handle Multiple Discovery Days?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Prepare for My Mates Polygraph Results?
Video icon Q&A Should I Insist or Let It Go?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Refuses Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Mate Holding Back Details?
Video icon Q&A Should We Disclose to the Affair Partner's Spouse?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Do When the Betrayed Spouse Doesn’t Believe Your Story?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Erase the Intrusive Thoughts?
Video icon Q&A Should I Insist That My Husband Disclose the Affair Partner's Identity?
Video icon Q&A Should We Share Our Story with Our Children?
Video icon Q&A Should I Disclose More Information for the Sake of the Children?
Video icon Q&A Could We Fail If We Don't Reach Ground Zero?
Video icon Q&A Why Won't My Mate Give Me Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A Should We Keep Talking about the Affair or Move On?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Move past All the Secrets?
Video icon Q&A Is Understanding the 'Why' Important for Healing?
Video icon Q&A Do I Have Enough Information to Ever Fully Trust Him Again?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Give My Anger a Healthy Outlet?
Video icon Q&A Should We Disclose the Affairs with Our Children?
Video icon Q&A Should I Disclose My Revenge Affair to My Mate?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Make Discovery Safe?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Mate Reacting This Way?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Differentiate Fact from Fiction?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Get Closure?
Video icon Q&A Is It Dangerous to Examine Photos and Messages from the Affair Partner?