Handling Discovery

We call it “D-day” for a reason. These articles will help you understand the process of disclosure and how to keep the process safe.

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Video icon Q&A Why Can't We Talk About It?
Video icon Q&A Do I Have All the Information Needed?
Audio icon Q&A Why Won't He Talk About It?
Audio icon Q&A Do I Have Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal With His Failure and My Detachment?
Audio icon Q&A Can One Reconnect While Not Being Truly Intimate?
Video icon Q&A Are My Questions Unfair?
Video icon Q&A How Important is a Normal Routine in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How do I Handle my Triggers?
Video icon Q&A Who Can I Talk to?
Video icon Q&A Is This a Deal Breaker?
Video icon Q&A What are the Right Questions?
Video icon Q&A What can I do to Get My Spouse to Give us More Time?
Video icon Q&A Should I Run Away?
Video icon Q&A How do I Deal with this Horrific Truth?
Video icon Q&A Do you Ever Recommend Separating?
Video icon Q&A Where do I Start After Lying for so Long?
Video icon Q&A At what Point do I Move on?
Video icon Q&A How Much do I Need to Know?
Audio icon Q&A What Affects do Polygraphs have on Recovery?
Audio icon Q&A How do I Come to Terms with what they Did?
Audio icon Q&A Should I Secretly Install Spyware on my Spouse's Phone?
Video icon Q&A Will I Ever Believe an Agreement Again?
Video icon Q&A Why Does my Mindset Change from Morning to Night?
Video icon Q&A Is this what PTSD Looks Like?
Video icon Q&A Am I Being Compared to the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What do you Suggest I do Now?
Audio icon Q&A Do I Have Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A What are the Issues Related to Being a F.O.B.A.D.?
Video icon Q&A Should I be Leading our Recovery?
Video icon Q&A What Boundaries are Needed to Keep my Family Safe?
Video icon Q&A How Risky is a F.O.B.A.D.?
Video icon Q&A How Does Trickle Truth Affect my Recovery Timeline?
Video icon Q&A How can I be Certain my Spouse has Disclosed Everything?
Video icon Q&A Why is my Husband Resisting Change?
Video icon Q&A How do You Know When You Have Worked Through the Pain?
Video icon Q&A How Much Can be Shared About the Affair Sex?
Video icon Q&A Should I Publicly Expose my Spouse's Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Why do They Continue to Lie?
Video icon Q&A Can Our Marriage Begin Again?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Deal with the Affair Partner Having Been in my House?
Video icon Q&A Does Giving my Wife Full Disclosure in Therapy Make me Less of a Man?
Video icon Q&A How can I Gain Perspective of an Addict's Mind?
Video icon Q&A My Husband's AP May be Pregnant with his Child. What do I do?
Video icon Q&A What do I do With a New Discovery About my Husband's Behavior?
Video icon Q&A Am I Overreacting to Setbacks, and is it Too Soon to Move Home?
Video icon Q&A Is it Normal for a Betrayed Spouse to have 180 Degree Turnaround?
Video icon Q&A What are Your Views on the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Is it Normal to Struggle with Liking my Mate?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Stop This Obsession?