Q&A Recovery Library

Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally.
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Video icon Q&A How Can I Be Authentic and Safe with My Emotions during Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible to Have Significantly Recovered at This Point in Healing?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Find Balance between Healing Myself and Healing Our Relationship?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Address My Spouse's Flirtatious Behaviors?
Video icon Q&A When My Husband Turns My Anger around on Me Is That Gaslighting?
Video icon Q&A What Behaviors Constitute Relapse?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When My Wayward Spouse See's the Affair as My Fault?
Video icon Q&A What Things Are Considered a Life Squeeze in the Cycle of Failure Exercise?
Video icon Q&A Are Walls Instead of Boundaries Necessary for a Season?
Video icon Q&A Is Sending an Apology Letter the Right Thing to Do?
Video icon Q&A Is Depression Normal Eight Months out from Discovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Become Safe for Someone Who Is Unsafe for Me?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Define Healing for the Betrayed Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Can a Couple Really Benefit from Doing This Work Every Week without the Wayward Spouse Initiating and Participating in Disclosure Attempts?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible That She Believed Her Emotional Affair Was Not Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A Is There Hope of Healing without Relapse along the Way?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle My Husband's Newfound, Seemingly Irresistible, Fetish?
Video icon Q&A Does It Matter If Someone Forced His Hand on Their Breast or It His Did It on His Own?
Video icon Q&A Is My Husband a Sex Addict?
Video icon Q&A Why Doesn’t It Seem He Wants a Healthy Wife and Be Safe for Her?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Understand That He Has Always Been Enough for Me?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Mate Giving Minimal Effort to Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Could Sex Mean Something with Me When My Mate Still Wanted It with Someone Else?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know When to Avoid Reminders and When to Push through Them?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Manage Recovery from Both My Affair My Mates Addiction?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Reach Honesty without Creating Triggers?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move Forward in Forgiving Myself?
Video icon Q&A What Methods Do You Recommend for Restoring Trust?
Video icon Q&A Are My Feelings a Step Backward?
Video icon Q&A Is This Gaslighting? If So, How Do I Respond?
Video icon Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Overcome the Triggers?
Video icon Q&A What Advice Would You Give around Our Recovery Efforts?
Video icon Q&A What Might Be the Reasons for My Ex-Wife's Relational Pattern?
Video icon Q&A How Do I View D-Day as the Date He Chose Me Rather Than the Day He Was Leaving Me?
Video icon Q&A Have I Done Enough on My Part to Try and Heal ‘Us’?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Prevent Relapse in This Work Situation?
Video icon Q&A Can I Heal If My Husband Is Not Completely Safe?
Video icon Q&A What Is the True Meaning of ‘Being Safe’ for the Injured Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Set Effective Boundaries as Someone Who Is Conflict Avoidant?
Video icon Q&A Is It Time to Let Go and Move On?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do about My Wayward Spouse's Regression during Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Keep the Affair Partner from Pursuing My Spouse?
Video icon Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Finding Community during Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Why Shouldn't the Betrayed Spouse Confront the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle the Fact That My Husband’s ‘Safe Place’ for Porn and Masturbation Has Primarily Been at Work?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get over My Husband's past Behavior?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do?
Video icon Q&A Is the Affair a Result of My Mates Addiction Issues?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Protect Myself from Getting an STD If My Husband Has Another Affair Again?
Video icon Q&A What Do We Do After EMS Online?