Safety in Recovery

The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.

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Video icon Q&A Should I Give My Mate a Second Chance?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Manage Safe Boundaries with a Child from the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Create Safety When Anonymity Is a Requirement in 12 Step Programs?
Video icon Q&A Is Mentoring Another Form of Pimping?
Video icon Q&A Is ‘Rubber Necking’ or Blatant Attention to Other Flirtatious Women Part of Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Make My Mate Feel Safe After All of This?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Betrayed Spouse Interrogating Me about Everyone of the Opposite Sex?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Overcome Emotional Abuse from My Mate?
Video icon Q&A What Happens When the Wayward Refuses to Get Help?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Refuses Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Respond to Relapse?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate Not to Contact Her Affair Partner for Closure?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Create Safety When We Are Apart?
Video icon Q&A What Boundaries Can We Set?
Video icon Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Safety in My Situation?
Video icon Q&A Is This a Red Flag?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Create Safety in This Situation?
Video icon Q&A Should We Separate Due to the Lack of Safety?
Video icon Q&A Should I Disclose More Information for the Sake of the Children?
Video icon Q&A Is It Necessary to Wait until I No Longer Have Feelings for the AP to Reconnect with My Wife?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Set Boundaries with Friends That Aided the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Why Has My Mate Broken My Trust Again?
Video icon Q&A Should We Continue with EMSO If My Mate Won't Break Contact With the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Is Charm Another Form of Pimping Tenderness?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Safely Parent a Child from the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Will Feelings for the Affair Partner Come Back If They Are Not Addressed?
Video icon Q&A What Does 'Working on the Marriage' Look like for the Unfaithful?
Video icon Q&A Should I Be Okay with My Mates Ex-Spouse Staying in Our Home When Family Comes to Visit?
Video icon Q&A Should I Be Open to Reconciliation?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Make Discovery Safe?
Video icon Q&A What Boundaries Can We Set around This Relationship?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Mate Reacting This Way?
Video icon Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Contacting the Affair Partner on Behalf of Your Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Protect Myself from My Mates Unsafe Behaviors?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Approach My Mates Fears in a Healthy Way?
Video icon Q&A What Type of Boundaries Can I Set for My Wife Who Has Had an Affair with Co-Worker?
Video icon Q&A Is It Safe for Us to Reconcile?
Video icon Q&A Why Won't My Mate Create a Safe Space for Me to Heal?
Video icon Q&A Is It Dangerous to Examine Photos and Messages from the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Should We Separate If My Mate Refuses to Break Contact with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Could This Lack of Safety Be Reason to End Our Relationship?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do about Physical Abuse?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Move Forward in Healing with the Fear That I May Remember More Information about My Affair?
Video icon Q&A Is There Hope for Recovery in This Type of Situation?
Video icon Q&A How Long Should I Wait for Consistent Honesty?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate's Lying?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Create Safety in Our Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get beyond This?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with My Feelings towards the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Will Our Marriage Get Better?