Safety in Recovery

The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.

1040 Resources
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Audio icon Q&A My Spouse is Maintaining Contact with his AP. What do I do?
Video icon Q&A (HFH) Am I a Sex Addict?
Video icon Q&A How do I Know if I Have Forgiven Enough Times?
Video icon Q&A My Unfaithful Spouse Will Not Share. What do I do?
Video icon Q&A Why Doesn't my Husband Understand the Damage he is Causing?
Video icon Q&A Do We Need Marriage as a Foundation?
Video icon Q&A (HFH) How do I Stop Thinking About my Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A (HFH) I Want to Contact my Affair Partner. How do I Stop Myself?
Video icon Q&A Should I Allow my Husband to Move Back in?
Audio icon Q&A How do I Get Away From Pretend Normal?
Audio icon Q&A My Husband Isn't Taking Action. Should I Leave?
Audio icon Q&A How Can I Show my Husband he is a Sex Addict?
Audio icon Q&A Can I Heal Without Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A When will my Husband Understand his Feelings so that I can Feel Safe?
Audio icon Q&A How Can I Calm the Hauntings?
Audio icon Q&A How Can I Enjoy an Activity with my Spouse When he did it With his Affair Partner?
Audio icon Q&A Limerance and Male Compartmentalization
Audio icon Q&A My Husband Refuses to get Help and Give me Disclosure
Audio icon Q&A What Can I do to Create Empathy Between me and my Spouse?
Audio icon Q&A Do I Run or Reconcile?
Audio icon Q&A Trouble Agreeing on Who to Tell, now What?
Video icon Q&A Should I Share my Temptations and/or Failings with my Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Can a Narcissist Change?
Video icon Q&A How do I Handle my Spouse's Affair Partner Having Explicit Photos of my Spouse?
Video icon Q&A What do I do With Righteous Indignation?
Video icon Q&A What do I do Since my Unfaithful Spouse Will Not be Honest?
Audio icon Q&A My Husband's Affair Partner is Blackmailing Us. What do we do?
Audio icon Q&A How do you Respond to Righteous Indignation?
Audio icon Q&A When Will my Unfaithful Spouse Gain Clarity on his Behaviors?
Video icon Q&A Should I Apologize to my Spouse's Family for my Affair?
Video icon Q&A Is There Danger in Asking my Unfaithful Spouse About His Affair Partner?
Audio icon Q&A Should I Write a Letter to the Affair Partner?
Audio icon Q&A Spouse Avoiding Issue and Anger Management
Video icon Q&A My Husband is Having Urges
Video icon Q&A Unfaithful Spouse Continues Contact with Affair Partner: When is Enough, Enough?
Video icon Q&A Addiction, Meetings, & Lack of Commitment
Audio icon Q&A My Unfaithful Spouse Wants me to Forgive and Forget
Audio icon Q&A Intrusive Thoughts Preventing Rest
Audio icon Q&A Hurt Spouse Contacting the Affair Partner
Audio icon Q&A Intrusive Thoughts and Triggers