Safety in Recovery

The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.

1040 Resources
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Video icon Q&A What More Can We Do to Set Boundaries with Family Members?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Protect Myself While Working Towards Healing?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do If My Wife Still Wants to Spend Time with Her Accomplice in Her Affair?
Video icon Q&A At What Point Should We Get a Restraining Order for the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Be Vulnerable If My Mate Has Only Committed to One Year of Healing?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Move Forward with This Lack of Trust?
Video icon Q&A How Should I Handle My Husband's Lack of Transparency?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Feel Safe through All of This?
Video icon Q&A How Will I Know If It's Safe for My Spouse to Move Back in with Me?
Video icon Q&A Do I Need to Have My Mate Move Out?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Feel Safe about My Husband Having Female Friends at Work?
Video icon Q&A What Applications and Filters Do You Recommend to Keep Us Safe?
Video icon Q&A Am I Controlling My Spouse or Is This the Appropriate Way to Set Boundaries?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stay Safe When My Mate Is Still Ambivalent?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal from the Intrusive Thoughts That Came as Result of Recording and Listening to My Mates Conversations with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Create Safety and Follow-Through with Boundaries?
Video icon Q&A What Do His Boundary Violations Mean?
Video icon Q&A Can You Explain the Benefits of an In-House Separation?
Video icon Q&A What Boundaries Are Appropriate in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Address the Anger and Defensiveness Coming from the Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Would This Level of Detail Hurt Our Recovery Process?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Wayward Spouse Continues to Contact the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Should We Wait for the Limerence to Subside before Seeking More Restoration?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get My Spouse to Open up about Their Affair?
Video icon Q&A Why Is It Always on Me to Set Boundaries?
Video icon Q&A Is My Spouse Showing a Lack of Trustworthiness?
Video icon Q&A Should I Tell My Husband That I Know More Details about His Affair Than I've Led on To?
Video icon Q&A Is My Husband Really Repentant?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Create Safety When Talking about the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Is It Wrong for Me to Accept My Husband's Comfort?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Create Safety in Professional Environments?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do about My Husband's Yellow Light Behaviors?
Video icon Q&A Why Can't We Talk about the Affair Partner with out the Wayward Spouse Shutting Down?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Recover When the Family Dynamic Has Been Dramatically Affected?
Video icon Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Confronting His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Continue to Establish Trust?
Video icon Q&A Can I Move Forward If I'm Concerned about Honesty?
Video icon Q&A Should My Husband Confront His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Be Transparent in a Way That Doesn't Hurt My Mate?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband's Dishonesty?
Video icon Q&A If I Draw a Line in the Sand about My Affair It Could Result in Me Losing My Child, What Do You Suggest?
Video icon Q&A Am I Being Used?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Maintain Peace When We Live in Close Proximity to the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Keep Contact with People I Feel Safe Around?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Avoid Flooding during Hard Conversations?
Video icon Q&A Do You Recommend a Separation in Our Circumstance?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Implement Boundaries More Effectively?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Share My Emotions without Triggering My Partners Shame?
Video icon Q&A Am I Safe?
Video icon Q&A Should I Give My Mate Information They Specifically Asked Me Not to Share?