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What Should I Do? 6/06/2018 Q&A Can a Wife Ever Get over Her Husband Having Sex with the Affair Partner in Their Home? 6/06/2018 Q&A Is Acknowledging and Working on the Unconscious Brain Important? 6/06/2018 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Clean up the Financial Mess His Affair Has Created? 6/06/2018 Q&A Why Does His Shame Trump My Pain? 6/06/2018 Q&A How Do I Manage the Feeling That I Will Never Be Enough? 6/06/2018 Q&A How Can I Protect My Children from Pornography? 6/06/2018 Q&A Will My Feelings Come Back for My Betrayed Husband? 5/23/2018 Q&A Should We Get a New Counselor? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mates Lack of Empathy? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Can My Honor Be Restored at My Unfaithful Spouse's Workplace? 5/23/2018 Q&A Is Calling This a ‘Mistake’ Minimization? 5/23/2018 Q&A Is My Husband Relapsing? 5/23/2018 Q&A My Mate Doesn't Believe I've Disclosed Everything, What Should I Do? 5/23/2018 Q&A Does My Mate 'Get It' or Is He Justifying His Actions? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Get to a Place Where I'm Not so Jaded? 5/23/2018 Q&A Was His Desire for This Type of Porn Changing His Brain? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Convey Grief about My Betrayal Rather than Shame? 5/23/2018 Surviving Infidelity: When Hope Crumbles - Part 2 5/22/2018 Q&A Why Did My Mate Continue to Repeat the Same Patterns with the Affair Partner? 5/21/2018 Q&A How Can a Betrayed Spouse Help with Their Unfaithful Partner's Selfish Shame, Guilt and Resentment? 5/18/2018 Q&A How Can a Betrayed Spouse Help with Their Unfaithful Partner's Selfish Shame, Guilt and Resentment? 5/18/2018 Q&A Will I Ever Stop Flooding? 5/18/2018 Q&A Should I Tell My Co-Worker about Her Husband’s Affair? 5/18/2018 Q&A Do You Think We Can Ever Truly Move Forward without Him Seeking Any Help? 5/18/2018 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 5/18/2018 Q&A Is There Hope? 5/18/2018 Q&A Do Most Affairs End Badly? 5/18/2018 Q&A Could He Be Telling the Truth? 5/18/2018 Q&A How Can I Minimize Thoughts of the Affair Partner? 5/16/2018 Q&A Can Men Have Control over Masturbation? 5/16/2018 Q&A What Is Your Opinion on Patrick Doyle's Material? 5/16/2018 Q&A What Should I Do If My Mates Recovery Isn't Consistent? 5/16/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Explain Why What My Husband Is Doing Isn't Working? 5/16/2018 Q&A What Do I Do about My Mother-In-Law? 5/16/2018 Surviving Infidelity: When Hope Crumbles 5/16/2018 Q&A Should I Put My Running Shoes on and Get out Now? 5/09/2018 Q&A How Do I Communicate That If He Doesn't Get Help That It's Over? 5/09/2018 Q&A How to I Get past My Irritation Towards My Mate? 5/09/2018 Q&A Is This a Sign of My Husband's Lack of Commitment? 5/09/2018 Q&A Will My Formerly Wayward Spouse Ever Feel Special to Me Again? 5/09/2018 Q&A Should My Unfaithful Spouse Apologize to the Affair Partner or Is There Another Way? 5/09/2018 Q&A What Do I Do While Waiting for My Spouse to Be Safe? 5/09/2018 Q&A Is His Betrayal Too Much to Overcome, or Is There Really Hope? 5/09/2018 Q&A How Can We Repair the Damage to Our Children? 5/09/2018 Q&A What Are Some Ways I Can Assess Progress? 5/09/2018 Q&A Will EMS Online Be Effective for Us If My Mate Doesn't View Online Interactions as 'Real'? 5/09/2018 Q&A What Are Your Recommendations for Coming to an Agreement on Sexual Intimacy after an EMS Weekend? 5/09/2018 Q&A What Treatment Do You Recommend for Me? 5/09/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…454647484950515253…next ›last »