Q&A Recovery Library

Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally.
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Video icon Q&A Am I Controlling My Spouse or Is This the Appropriate Way to Set Boundaries?
Video icon Q&A At What Point Do You Give up on Your Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Show Grace without Being Taken Advantage Of?
Video icon Q&A What Would You Recommend for Spouses Who Lose Their Mate to Suicide during Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Can I Ever Get Passed Sharing My Daughter with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do to Keep These Triggers from Impacting Me so Much?
Video icon Q&A Are There Differences in Recovery Based on When Discovery Happens?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible to Recover Hope for Something New?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stay Safe When My Mate Is Still Ambivalent?
Video icon Q&A Can Minimizing Childhood Trauma Affect the Ability to Take Responsibility and Show Empathy during Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal from the Intrusive Thoughts That Came as Result of Recording and Listening to My Mates Conversations with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Should I Have the Wayward Spouse Break off the Affair in Front of Me?
Video icon Q&A Does He Need a Consequence to Fully Recommit?
Video icon Q&A How Long Will It Take for My Husband to Retrain His Thinking?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Overcome My Negative Feelings Towards Family Members?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Create Safety and Follow-Through with Boundaries?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Do When the Infidelity Involves Family Members?
Video icon Q&A What Do His Boundary Violations Mean?
Video icon Q&A Is There Something Wrong with Me Because I Still Love in Spite of All This?
Video icon Q&A Can You Explain the Benefits of an In-House Separation?
Video icon Q&A Should the Betrayed Spouse Inform the Affair Partners Spouse of the Affair?
Video icon Q&A What Boundaries Are Appropriate in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Do You Have Any Advice for the Spouse of Someone Who's Been Autonomous for Nearly 20 Years in Addition to Being Passive Aggressive?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Spouse Having a Difficult Time with Empathy When I'm Hurting?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Having Such a Difficult Time Letting Go of the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Get Our Strong Emotional Connection Back?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know If I'm Making the Right Choice?
Video icon Q&A Should We Stop the Trickle Effect of Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal When I Am Always in Fight or Flight Mode?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Accept What My Mate Is Telling Me?
Video icon Q&A Why Can't My Spouse See How They Could've Prevented Their Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Long Will It Take for Feelings for the Affair Partner to Disappear?
Video icon Q&A Are the Gottmans Encouraging Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Address the Anger and Defensiveness Coming from the Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Protect My Children through All of This?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do about My Husband's Covert Narcissism?
Video icon Q&A What Is a Normal Reaction from the Wayward When Discovering Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Continued Obsessive Thoughts about the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Could My Wife Feel so Connected with the Affair Partner and Not Think the Sex Was Better with Them?
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Do about My Thoughts during Sex?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get past My Own Shame and Guilt?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible That My Spouse Is an Addict?
Video icon Q&A How Is This Not about Me?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know When to Stand up and Say Enough Is Enough?
Video icon Q&A How Much Does Childhood Abandonment Affect Recovery from Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get past My Husband's Recreated Fantasy about a High School Girlfriend?
Video icon Q&A Would This Level of Detail Hurt Our Recovery Process?
Video icon Q&A Is Her Disgust about the Affair a Sign That the Limerence Is Disappearing?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Know If What I Experienced with the Affair Partner Was Love, Limerence, or Love Addiction?
Video icon Q&A How Should the Wayward Spouse Respond to New Discoveries by the Betrayed Spouse?