Q&A Recovery Library

Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally.
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Video icon Q&A How Can I Move Towards Vulnerability with Someone Capable of This?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do to Help Myself, and Us, At the One Year Mark?
Video icon Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Partner to Feel Rage?
Video icon Q&A What Exactly Do I Grieve and Do I Have to Grieve Before I Can Forgive?
Video icon Q&A Why Would Someone Put Such a Cherished Relationship at Risk with an Affair?
Video icon Q&A Have Men Been Able to Forgive and Have a Healthy Relationship After Extreme Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How Could He So Easily Forget the Pain He Caused?
Video icon Q&A What Advice Would You Give to a Couple Who Feels Safe Now and for the Future, but Is Struggling with ‘Getting Right’ with past Infidelities and Traumas?
Video icon Q&A Is There Anything the Wayward Spouse Can Say or Do That Has Been Effective in Helping the Betrayed Spouse Feel Better?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move Forward from Here?
Video icon Q&A Why Should I Continue in This Relationship?
Video icon Q&A How Will I Ever Feel Safe with Someone Who Has No Control over Themselves?
Video icon Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Need Time to Mourn the Loss of the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal from What Happened?
Video icon Q&A Could You Provide Suggestion on How to Predict & Repair Intrusive Thoughts When We Are Engaging in Sex?
Video icon Q&A What Makes Someone Vulnerable to a Previous Romantic Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Address and Heal from My Husband’s past Betrayal in Light of My Recent Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Prove to My Betrayed Spouse That I Finally ‘Get It’?
Video icon Q&A How Can the Unfaithful Spouse Love Me and Have an Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Am I Asking Too Much in Regards to Relapse Prevention from My Husband?
Video icon Q&A Would You Ever Consider Hosting a ‘Trauma Therapy Specific’ Weekend Intensive?
Video icon Q&A How Is Proper Closure with the Affair Partner Done in This Situation?
Video icon Q&A How Do Others Cope with No Answers or Resolutions?
Video icon Q&A After a Polygraph Is Done to Confirm the Couple Is at Ground Zero, What Should Each Partner Expect from the Other Going Forward?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Recommend We Handle Interactions with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Does He Not Have Deep Residual Feelings for the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Dismantle the Wall Hindering My Wayward Spouse from Expressing Sorrow, Remorse, and Empathy?
Video icon Q&A I Want My Mate to Apologize. Is It Okay to Tell Him the Things He Has Done That Have Hurt Me?
Video icon Q&A Are My Requests for Relapse Prevention Measures Unreasonable?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Protect My Own Boundaries While Navigating This Complex Relationship?
Video icon Q&A Can You Please Give Some Direction on the Various Courses and the Best Way to Go Through Them?
Video icon Q&A What Would Put Me Back Into Integrity as a Betrayed Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Husband Blaming Me for His Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Talk About My Stupidity in a Redemptive Way, While I’m Still Struggling Through My Heart Change?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting My Husband to Completely Separate from Anyone Complicit in His Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Forgive the Affair Partner When She Is Still Impacting My Life So Negatively?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Respond If I Feel the Wayward Spouse Doesn’t Want to Be with Me?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get Past This Feeling of Never Being Her Choice When She Had Freedom to Choose?
Video icon Q&A Do I Take Action Against the Affair Partner or Just Letting It Go?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Hating the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Healing or Blending Two Different Attachment Styles?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal from the Race of the Affair Partner Being a Trigger?
Video icon Q&A Is There Any Hope That My Husband Will Change?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Such Hatred Towards His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Using Parental Control Apps to Create Safety and Rebuild Trust?
Video icon Q&A How Can She Support the ED That Came from Her Betrayal, Instead of Waiting for It to Fix Itself?
Video icon Q&A Do You Have Experience with BPD Affairs?
Video icon Q&A When Do I Throw in the Towel?
Video icon Q&A As the Betrayed, Is It Wise to Seek Closure with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Move past This Set-Back in Our Recovery?