Q&A Why Do I Get Aroused Imagining the Sexual Acts My Wife Did with Her Affair Partner? 4/16/2025
Q&A How Long Will It Take for Him to Get Over His Feelings Towards Her and the Fantasy of the Affair? 4/09/2025
Q&A Do You Suggest He Focus On Healing Himself First, Then Our Marriage? 4/09/2025
Q&A How Do We Restore the Relationship with Our Adult Children? 4/09/2025
Q&A Is It Healthy for Me to Gather Evidence in Order to Move On from This? 4/09/2025
Q&A Is There a Way to Reconnect or Get Him to Engage Before Throwing 35 Years Away? 4/09/2025
Q&A When My Mate Accuses Me of Being a Narcissist Are They Really Recognizing Traits Within Themselves? 4/09/2025
Q&A When Will the Abusive Language and Name-Calling from the Betrayed Spouse Stop? 4/02/2025
Q&A How Do I Know If My Spouse Really Shut the Door on the Affair Partner? 4/02/2025
Q&A What Do I Look for to Know the Affair Isn’t Still Happening? 4/02/2025
Q&A When Will My Efforts Be Enough for My Spouse? 4/02/2025
Q&A How Should I Respond When He Shares Lies with Me, Especially If I Perceive He Is Sugar-Coating the Truth? 4/01/2025
Q&A How Do I Find a Way to Show Compassion or Empathy When I Find Myself Empty of It in the Moment? 4/01/2025
Q&A Can You Shed Light on Pass/Fail Outcomes and Eye-Scan Polygraph Tests? 4/01/2025
Q&A Can I Forgive My Husband for Abandonment? 4/01/2025
Q&A How Can We Best Deal With This Hurtful Possibility and Begin to Heal from It? 4/01/2025
Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Apologizing to the Affair Partner’s Spouse? 3/26/2025
Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Journaling as a Betrayed Spouse? 3/26/2025
Q&A How Could He Possibly Call What He Had with the Affair Partner ‘Love'? 3/26/2025
Q&A Can You Give Me Insight on What Therapy Modalities Would Be Best for Me? 3/11/2025
Q&A Do You Recommend We Continue Living Separately During Recovery? 3/11/2025
Q&A Who Falls in True Love with an Affair Partner? 3/11/2025
Q&A How Much of This Developmental Trauma Contributed to Me Having an Affair in Adulthood? 2/25/2025
Q&A Why Can’t My Husband See the Affair Partner Through a Negative Lens? 2/25/2025
Q&A Does It Matter Who Ended the Affair? 2/25/2025
Q&A Can the Wayward Spouse Really Have No Triggers? 2/18/2025
Q&A Please Help Me Understand What My Reality Is as We Try to Recover from This. 2/11/2025
Q&A Will the Sadness and Intrusive Thoughts Ever Stop? 2/11/2025
Q&A How Do I Tell the Wayward Spouse I Need More Discussion to Heal and Process? 2/11/2025
Q&A How Do We Create Safety When My Husband Had an Emotional Affair with a Coworker for Approximately 7 Years? 2/11/2025
Q&A Is It Possible to Have an Emotional Affair for Many Years and Not Be In Limerence? 2/04/2025
Q&A How Do We Protect Ourselves from an Aggressive and Persistent Affair Partner? 2/04/2025
Q&A Why Has My Spouse Refused to Cut Ties with His High School Sweetheart? 2/04/2025
Q&A Why Would the Wayward Spouse Continue to Lie About Plans with the Affair Partner? 2/04/2025
Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Raw Emotion from My Unfaithful Wife? 2/04/2025
Q&A How Do I Find Closure When the Affair Partner Is a Close Family Friend? 1/14/2025
Q&A What Do You Do If the Wayward Spouse Shows No Remorse, Empathy, or Compassion? 1/14/2025
Q&A How Detailed Should the Disclosure Be for a 7-Year Emotional Affair With a Coworker? 1/08/2025
Q&A Do You Think I Should Reach Out to Affair Partner’s Wife and Disclose the Affair? 1/08/2025
Q&A Is the Connection I Have with My First Love (Not My Husband) Normal? 1/08/2025
Q&A How Important Is Attunement When Recovering from an Affair? 1/08/2025
Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust When His Words Still Feel Scripted and Devoid of Genuine Empathy? 12/17/2024
Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Our First Wedding Anniversary After Discovery? 12/17/2024
Q&A What If My Husband Doesn’t Want to Change? 12/03/2024
Q&A How Do I Feel Safe Knowing That the Worst Pain I Have Ever Felt Could Possibly Happen Again? 12/03/2024
Q&A Will She Ever Tell the Truth Without Being Backed Into a Corner? 11/26/2024
Q&A How Do I Respond If I Don’t Believe My Spouse? 11/12/2024
Q&A Is My Spouse Trying to Punish Me for What I’ve Done? 11/12/2024
Q&A How Do I Handle My Issue With Disassociation? 11/05/2024
Q&A How Do We Navigate Outside Advice and Establish Boundaries to Protect Our Relationship? 10/30/2024
