Q&A Recovery Library

Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally.
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Video icon Q&A Is My Mate’s Inability to Experience Emotions Due to Deep Trauma or Something More Problematic?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Recommend I Write My Closure Letter to the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Is It Necessary for Him to Be Proactive or Should I Be Happy He’s Doing What I Ask of Him?
Video icon Q&A What If the Only Way I Can Heal Is without Horizontal Forgiveness?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle Workplace Triggers in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Do You Think My Spouse Is Being Honest about Why They Stayed in the Affair for So Long?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Best Way for Us to Utilize EMS Online since We Have Both Been Unfaithful?
Video icon Q&A What Type of Affair Is This?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Cope with My Own Issues of Needing to Feel Understood by My Husband as the Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Can Someone Who Has Become Such an Accomplished Liar Prove to the Betrayed Spouse That They Can Be Trusted?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Discern If a Person Is Truly Remorseful and Changing When They Relapse into Blaming the Betrayed?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible for the Individual to Find Healing and Purpose Even If the Marriage Doesn’t Survive?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle a Paternity Test for a Child Born Years Ago?
Video icon Q&A Does My Husband’s Sexual Performance Indicate a Serious Issue?
Video icon Q&A Is My Lack of Emotion Normal or Am I Experiencing Something Much Worse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Spouse’s Siblings?
Video icon Q&A Do We Have a Chance at Recovery If He Is Unable to Understand How Trauma Can Impact Me?
Video icon Q&A Why Does He Tell Me I Am the Only Girl and Will Be Faithful When He Continues to See Other Women?
Video icon Q&A Does My Mate Have a Sexual Addiction?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Approach This Polygraph without Feeling like My Marriage Is on the Line?
Video icon Q&A How Do Social Engagement and Our Nervous Systems Work Together?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate That I’m Not Talking to the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Action Do You Recommend If My Mates Behavior Doesn’t Change?
Video icon Q&A Do You Think There Is an Appropriate Methodology of Trying to Recall Some of This Using Hypnosis?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle Pregnancy So Close to Discovery?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Acknowledge That Being in an Affair for So Long Has Affected the Way They See Themselves, Me, and Our Relationship Sexually?
Video icon Q&A How Long Typically Does It Take for a Betrayed Spouse to Forgive Their Unfaithful Spouse If the Unfaithful Spouse Is Doing the Work to Reconcile?
Video icon Q&A Can You Further Explain How to Determine and Address What Could Have Led to My Husband’s Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Navigate My Sister Being the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Explain Disassociation and It’s Part in the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Enjoyment of Porn?
Video icon Q&A Does This Type of Repeated Behavior Indicate an Addiction or Wanting Both the Marriage and the Affair, or Both?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Help My Husband Understand the Effects of Trauma While Also Letting Him See That It Is Not an Excuse for My Actions?
Video icon Q&A What Kind of Affair Is This?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Explain That My Childhood Trauma Triggered My Actions and Doesn’t Remove My Accountability Even If I Did Disassociate?
Video icon Q&A Will My Children Lose Respect for Me If I Reconcile?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate Weaponizing Information That I’m Sharing with Them?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do, as the Betrayed, to Try and Get Closure?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Handle Having OCD and a Sexual Addiction at the Same Time?
Video icon Q&A Are My Boundaries for My Spouse Unreasonable?
Video icon Q&A What Is a Realistic Timeline for My Own Recovery with C-PTSD and Childhood Trauma and Being Able to Answer Every Specifically Detailed ‘Why'?
Video icon Q&A How Can He Have No Feelings for the Affair Partner or Not Remember How He Expressed Feelings for Her?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel Suspicious or Am I Jumping to Conclusions?
Video icon Q&A Does My Wayward Spouse Need Closure with Their Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Is It Productive to Healing and Reconciliation for the Unfaithful to Withhold Sex?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Who Won’t Be Open with Me?
Video icon Q&A Do I Keep It to Myself When I Get Triggered?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Get Anywhere If a Calm Conversation Can’t Happen about His Recovery or Betrayals?
Video icon Q&A Does a More Regular Use of Porn Increase the Likelihood of Cheating?
Video icon Q&A If He Was Having an Affair to Get Some Sort of Thrill or Feeling from That Person Why Did He Constantly Want My Attention Too?