For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A Why Can't I Begin to Move past This?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Effectively Communicate My Pain?
Video icon Q&A Why Would the Unfaithful Shame the Betrayed?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Forgive the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Do I Accept My Mate Wanting a Divorce, or Do I Fight for the Marriage?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do If Things Are Getting Worse Rather Than Better?
Video icon Q&A Is My Spouse Really Trying to Disconnect from the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Break the Barrier between Us When the Unfaithful Says He Isn't Sure He Wants to Be Married?
Video icon Q&A How Can Two Seriously Broken People Move Forward?
Video icon Q&A If I Continue to Have Sex with My Spouse, Am I Letting Him Use Me?
Video icon Q&A How Long Is Normal for Him to Grieve the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Getting a Sense of Security from My Anger?
Video icon Q&A If He Had the Affair, Why Do I Feel Like the 'Bad Guy'?
Video icon Q&A Is This Normal, or Is My Spouse a Sex Addict?
Video icon Q&A Can Medication Prevent Me from Properly Grieving the Loss?
Video icon Q&A If I Decide to Stay, How Do I Trust Again?
Video icon Q&A How Can You Create Safety When the Affair Partner Is a Co-Worker?
Video icon Q&A What's the Difference between Sorrow and Regret?
Video icon Q&A What Was My Unfaithful Mate Thinking?
Video icon Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Spouse to Crave Intimacy If the Wayward Spouse Is Not Interested?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Unfaithful Still Justifies the Affair with Marriage Deficits?
Video icon Q&A Would My Spouse Apologizing to Our Friends Restore My Sense of Honor?
Video icon Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Answers to 'Why'?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with Bad Dreams?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Overcome Intrusive Thoughts While Being Intimate?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal When My Husband Gets So Angry?
Video icon Q&A How Does Telling a Few Trusted Friends about My Husband's Infidelity Help Me Heal?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle the Behavior before D-Day?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Process the Truth of What Has Happened?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Forgive the AP Who Was Also a Close Friend?
Video icon Q&A Where Do I Go from Here?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Again?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Understand the Mind of the Unfaithful?
Video icon Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Grateful I Haven't Left Yet?
Video icon Q&A How Much Initiation Should the Unfaithful Spouse Be Responsible for in the Healing Process?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Need to Know?
Video icon Q&A Is There Hope for Our Marriage?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Overcome the Fear I Have with His Sexual Performance?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Heal from the Affair While Raising a Child Conceived with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Set Reasonable Boundaries?
Video icon Q&A How Can My Mate Get the AP to Stop Contact?
Video icon Q&A Do I Need to Know?
Video icon Q&A Am I in a Phase?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Be Sure the Type of Sex He Had with His AP Is Not His New Preference?
Video icon Q&A Was His Behavior Typical of Someone in an Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Be Sure That the Feelings Are Gone?
Video icon Q&A What Might It Take for My Heart to Stop Aching and Me to Be Truly 'All In'?
Video icon Q&A What Might It Take for My Heart to Stop Aching and Me to Be Truly 'All In'?
Video icon Q&A Why Can't I Fully Commit to My Wife?
Video icon Q&A What Causes Someone to Cheat?