Q&A Recovery Library Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally. Must Reads more less How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Power of Small Groups How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 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Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 3872 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Should I Let Him Go? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Could He Go from Begging Me to Stay to This? 8/17/2021 Q&A Is It Possible That the Shame Is Creating a Barrier to Empathy? 8/17/2021 Q&A Why Does This Hurt Me? 8/17/2021 Q&A My Husband Is Still Pursuing His Affair Partner after 13 Months and Is Refusing Any Work. Is There Hope? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle This Conflict between What He’s Saying and What He’s Doing? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal With This When I Cannot Reasonably Ask Her to Quit Working nor Can I Check In Frequently to Make Sure It's Not Happening Again? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle Other Counselor’s ‘Okaying’ My Husband’s Continuation of His Rock-Concert Gigs? 8/17/2021 Q&A Should I Tell the Affair Partner’s Wife about the Affair? 8/17/2021 Q&A Will I Ever Know If My Spouse Is No Longer Emotionally Attached to His Affair Partner? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Do Handle My Wife Having a Same-Sex Affair? 8/02/2021 Q&A How Do I Behave around My Family When My Sister Is the Affair Partner? 8/02/2021 Q&A Does My Husband’s Behavior Qualify as Sexual Addiction? 8/02/2021 Q&A How Do My Spouse and I Get On the Same Level When It Comes to Appropriate Communication to His Affair Partner about Their Daughter? 8/02/2021 Q&A Do You Recommend Joining Harboring Hope or Hope For Healing after Completing EMS Online? 7/22/2021 Q&A How Do I Feel Good about Myself Again after What Has Happened? 7/22/2021 Q&A How Can We Want a Better Marriage in the Future When I Didn't Think It Was Bad in the First Place? 7/22/2021 Q&A Can You Explain Personal Responsibility in Regards to Infidelity? 7/22/2021 Q&A Can You Help Me Put a Little Light On Where I Am Stuck? 7/22/2021 Q&A How Can I Now Be the Bad Guy? 7/13/2021 Q&A Do You Advise Me to Have a Session with My Psychologist, Family, And Friends to Discuss the Things He Has Said About Me? 7/13/2021 Q&A Should I Share the Date I Have Set For Making a Decision with My Husband? 7/13/2021 Q&A Is Keeping Him from Moving Home Making Things Worse? 7/13/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle My Healing and My Husband? 7/13/2021 Q&A Why Did My Husband Have Such a Seemingly Lame Affair? 7/13/2021 Q&A Is Location-Sharing and Access to Phones Recommended? 7/13/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal With His Advice without Feeling He Is Criticizing Me? 7/13/2021 Q&A How Can I Stop the Feeling That I Constantly Need to Check on My Wayward Spouse for Safety? 7/13/2021 Q&A How Best Do I Ask for This Information So That He Understands the Level of Transparency I Need to Feel Safe? 7/13/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal With the Physical Distance between Me and My Husband during Recovery? 7/13/2021 Q&A My Husband Wants to Know Why I Haven't Heard from a Betrayed Woman Who Is Still Married to Her Wayward Spouse? 7/13/2021 Q&A Do I Sell My House with My Unfaithful Spouse in It? 7/13/2021 Q&A Do I Let Go of My Attachment to Her Now or Wait until Our Courses Are Complete? 7/13/2021 Q&A Can You Recommend a Daily Prayer for Me? 7/08/2021 Q&A Do You Have Any Insights into My Wayward Spouse's Line of Thinking? 7/08/2021 Q&A Will My Husband Love Me Again, the Way He Used To? 7/08/2021 Q&A Any Resources on Becoming More Faith Based? 7/08/2021 Q&A What Are These Somatic Sensations in My Extremities? 7/08/2021 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here When My Spouse Is Mostly Defensive and Blame Shifting? 7/08/2021 Q&A When My Mate Floods, Why Do I Get Distressed In Turn? 7/08/2021 Q&A How Do I Reconcile with the Affair Partner Who Is My Sister? 7/08/2021 Q&A Is It Okay to Ask to the the 40 Cost Assignment from EMS Weekend Again? 7/08/2021 Q&A Do Men Always Want to Have Sex with Other Women? 7/08/2021 Q&A I'm Confused about the Cycle of Grace and Performance Management. Can You Please Explain? 6/17/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Spouse Not Going All-In on Recovery? 6/17/2021 Q&A What Are the Effective Ways of Grieving and How Do I Know Which One Is Best For Me? 6/17/2021 Q&A Are We Trying to Recover Too Fast? 6/17/2021 Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Calm After Disclosing the Truth? 6/17/2021 Q&A How Can I Pretend Normal Around Family When Even Thoughts of Them Are Triggering and Intrusive? 6/17/2021 Q&A How Can I Move Forward While Convinced That He Is Still Lying to Me? 6/17/2021 Pages« first‹ previous…456789101112…next ›last »