Q&A Recovery Library

Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally.
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Video icon Q&A Do I Accept My Mate Wanting a Divorce, or Do I Fight for the Marriage?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Set Better Boundaries with My In-Laws?
Video icon Q&A What's the Difference between Limerence during an Affair and Infatuation during Dating?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do If Things Are Getting Worse Rather Than Better?
Video icon Q&A Is My Spouse Really Trying to Disconnect from the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Break the Barrier between Us When the Unfaithful Says He Isn't Sure He Wants to Be Married?
Video icon Q&A How Long Should I Wait before Filing for Divorce?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Show Empathy for My Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Is It Time to Give Up?
Video icon Q&A What Resources Would You Suggest for My Situation?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Overcome the Consequences of My Actions?
Video icon Q&A How Can Two Seriously Broken People Move Forward?
Video icon Q&A If I Continue to Have Sex with My Spouse, Am I Letting Him Use Me?
Video icon Q&A How Long Is Normal for Him to Grieve the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Keep the Healing Momentum Going?
Video icon Q&A How Does Cognitive Dissonance Play out in Affairs?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Getting a Sense of Security from My Anger?
Video icon Q&A What Should the Expectations Be for Long Separations?
Video icon Q&A If He Had the Affair, Why Do I Feel Like the 'Bad Guy'?
Video icon Q&A Will Our Situation Change?
Video icon Q&A How Should I Respond to My Betrayed Husband?
Video icon Q&A Is This Normal, or Is My Spouse a Sex Addict?
Video icon Q&A (HFH) How Can I Connect with My Mate If They Don’t Want Me?
Video icon Q&A Can Medication Prevent Me from Properly Grieving the Loss?
Video icon Q&A If I Decide to Stay, How Do I Trust Again?
Video icon Q&A How Can You Create Safety When the Affair Partner Is a Co-Worker?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Get past 'Why' and 'How Could You Do This' Questions?
Video icon Q&A What's the Difference between Sorrow and Regret?
Video icon Q&A What Was My Unfaithful Mate Thinking?
Video icon Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Spouse to Crave Intimacy If the Wayward Spouse Is Not Interested?
Video icon Q&A How Does an Unfaithful Spouse Cope with Continued Shaming from the Betrayed Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Unfaithful Still Justifies the Affair with Marriage Deficits?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Achieve If I Don't Answer Comparison Questions?
Video icon Q&A Would My Spouse Apologizing to Our Friends Restore My Sense of Honor?
Video icon Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Answers to 'Why'?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with Bad Dreams?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Overcome Intrusive Thoughts While Being Intimate?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal When My Husband Gets So Angry?
Video icon Q&A How Does Telling a Few Trusted Friends about My Husband's Infidelity Help Me Heal?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle the Behavior before D-Day?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Process the Truth of What Has Happened?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Forgive the AP Who Was Also a Close Friend?
Video icon Q&A Where Do I Go from Here?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Again?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Understand the Mind of the Unfaithful?
Video icon Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Grateful I Haven't Left Yet?
Video icon Q&A How Much Initiation Should the Unfaithful Spouse Be Responsible for in the Healing Process?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Need to Know?
Video icon Q&A Is There Hope for Our Marriage?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Overcome the Fear I Have with His Sexual Performance?