Q&A Recovery Library

Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally.
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Video icon Q&A Is His Affair Too Big for Us to Overcome?
Video icon Q&A Are My Requests Unreasonable?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Maintain My Stand to Not Tolerate His Behavior While Not Ruining a Co-Parenting Relationship?
Video icon Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward?
Video icon Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle All of Life's Issues without Losing Focus of the Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How Should Intimacy Look for a Couple after Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal When I Feel He’s Lying and Still Entangled with a Coworker?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Ever Feel Safe with This History of Deceit?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Proceed without Acknowledgement That It Was an Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Tell Others about Our Recovery and How Do I Handle Being Triggered While Seeing Clients?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle Running into the Affair Partner Now That the Affair Is Over?
Video icon Q&A What's Your Take on an Unfaithful Wife Who Still Blames the Marriage for the Affair 1 Year from Discovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse When He Is Drowning in Shame?
Video icon Q&A Should I Not Bring up the Affair Again?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do with a Spouse That Blames Me for the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle Comparison with the Affair Partner and Changing My Mindset of My Self-Worth?
Video icon Q&A Are We Doomed to a Sexless Marriage after the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Am I Being Emotionally Abused since His Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Is Healing from a Long-Term Affair Different Than Healing from a Short-Term Affair or One Night Stand?
Video icon Q&A Can You Give Specific Suggestions to Handle the Locations of the Acting out with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Safe Questions Can I Ask to Regain Our Openness but without Causing Me Pain?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get past the Fears of What He Will Do If I Leave Him?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get past My Negative Self Image?
Video icon Q&A Do We Revert Back to Our Old State Once the Threat Disappears?
Video icon Q&A He Wants to Do the Bootcamp but I Don't. What Do We Do?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to See Me in a More Positive Light?
Video icon Q&A Is It Okay to Let the Affair Partner Know That I Forgive Her?
Video icon Q&A Is It Therapeutic for People to Know about My Affair?
Video icon Q&A Where Do I Go from Here?
Video icon Q&A Is Asking Questions Abusive?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Support Him When He Struggles to Be Safe for Us?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Overcome past Promises of Leaving after Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A Why Am I Struggling with the Length of the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle Weddings?
Video icon Q&A Will Marriage Therapy Work If the Unfaithful Spouse Doesn't Have to Discuss What Happened?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know If a Counselor Is a Good Fit?
Video icon Q&A What Is a Reasonable Expectation When I Share a Wound with My Mate?
Video icon Q&A Why Has New Information Been Such a Major Setback for Me?
Video icon Q&A Is It Beneficial to Read My Mates Journaling during Hope for Healing?
Video icon Q&A Since I Cheated on Her, Will My Mate Ever See Me as Committed?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Explain What the Word 'Safe' Means to Me?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible for Him to Change Enough Where I Feel Can Safe in the Future?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Fear of Contact with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Is It Common for People to Rationalize Behaviors Other Than Intercourse as 'Okay'?
Video icon Q&A How Can the Church Support Couples after Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move past Him Not Telling Me He Loves Me?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know If This Is Progress or Pretend Normal?
Video icon Q&A Is This Level of Anger Normal When Recovering from an Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Help Our Son's Struggles in This Aftermath of Infidelity?