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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How can My Unfaithful Mate Help Me When I Flood Emotionally?	10/12/2016
	Q&A How do I Forgive a Lifetime of Infidelity?	10/12/2016
	Q&A Why do I Break Down When I'm Shown Empathy?	10/12/2016
	Q&A Was His Infidelity Based on Me Not Being Who He Wants?	10/12/2016
	Q&A Can We Heal from Infidelity if My Mate Isn't Empathetic, Won't Talk About it, and Blows Up When I Bring it Up?	10/11/2016
	Q&A How Can I Communicate With My Spouse After Her Affairs?	10/11/2016
	Q&A Should Our Son Know the Affair Partner's Name?	10/11/2016
	Q&A How did My Cycle of Grace Become My Cycle of Failure?	10/11/2016
	Q&A How do We Heal if There was a Child from the Affair?	10/11/2016
	Q&A I Stopped the Affair. Will I Cheat Again?	10/11/2016
	Q&A Why Isn't She Remorseful After Her Affair?	10/11/2016
	Q&A After His Affair, Will I Ever Trust Him Again?	10/11/2016
	Q&A If He's Been so Good at Lying, How Can I Trust His Story of the Affair?	10/11/2016
	Q&A How Much Should He Tell Me About His Recovery?	10/11/2016
	Q&A How do I Keep From Comparing Our Sex Against the Sex He Had with His Affair Partner?	10/11/2016
	Q&A If Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater, How do I Feel Safe?	9/28/2016
	Q&A How and When do I Process All the Information of the Affairs?	9/28/2016
	Q&A Is Recovery from an Affair Possible if My Mate Can't be Empathetic?	9/28/2016
	Q&A What Signs do I Look for to Know that My Unfaithful Spouse is in Recovery?	9/28/2016
	Q&A After More Trickle Truth, How do I Handle the Fear of More Information?	9/28/2016
	Q&A Can We Recover From His Affair?	9/28/2016
	Q&A I was Unfaithful. Why do I Feel Betrayed?	9/28/2016
	Q&A How do I Feel Safe When My Mate Wants Someone Else?	9/28/2016
	Q&A How do I Stop Comparing Myself to the Affair Partner?	9/28/2016
	Q&A How Can We Safely be Sexually Intimate Again After the Affair?	9/28/2016
	Q&A Is This a Reasonable Stand for Me to Take with My Unfaithful Spouse?	9/28/2016
	Q&A Will My Spouse Come Around or is it Time to End it After the Affair?	9/28/2016
	Q&A Can a Person be Addicted to Emotional Affairs?	9/28/2016
	Q&A Should I Stay in Touch With My Spouse While he is With the Affair Partner?	9/28/2016
	Q&A After Decades of Lying, is it Possible to be Truthful?	9/28/2016
	Q&A How do I Feel Safe When My Spouse Won't Address the Issues that Allowed the Infidelity?	9/28/2016
	Q&A What does Full Disclosure of an Affair Look Like Practically?	9/28/2016
	Q&A How Can I Productively Let My Spouse Know Our Current Reality After His Affairs?	9/28/2016
	Q&A How do I Learn to Enjoy My Spouse Again After Their Affair?	9/28/2016
	Q&A How Can I Stop Thinking About Seeking Justice With the Affair Partners?	9/28/2016
	Q&A Can We Reconcile While the Affair Partner is Still in the Picture?	9/28/2016
	Q&A Can We Heal Without Counseling or Other Work After Their Affair?	9/28/2016
	Q&A What's Appropriate in Terms of Sexual Needs for the Betrayed?	9/28/2016
	Q&A After Harboring Hope, What Resources Are Suggested to Continue Healing After Infidelity?	9/28/2016
	Q&A Is Our Marriage Too Broken to Fix After Her Multiple Affairs?	9/28/2016
	Q&A How Can I Handle My Wife Not Being Intimate After Her Affair?	9/28/2016
	Q&A How Do I Stay in a Cycle of Grace Vs. Performance?	9/22/2016
	Q&A Can You Please Explain How the Pain of Sex and Love Addiction can be Transmitted to Children?	9/22/2016
	Q&A What if I Need to go Through All the Material I Collected from My Mate's Infidelity?	9/22/2016
	Q&A Is There Any Benefit of My Husband Writing Another Termination Letter to His Affair Partner?	9/22/2016
	Q&A What Should I Do After These Continued Affairs?	9/22/2016
	Q&A My Husband Insists We Move Forward Without Discussing the Affair. Is it Possible?	9/22/2016
	Q&A After His Affairs, He Isn't Broken. Can We Heal?	9/22/2016
	Q&A What Should I do to Help Her from Going Back to the Affair Partner?	9/22/2016
	Q&A How do I Deal With Anger and Lack of Trust After the Affair Has Ended?	9/22/2016