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Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 4912 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A In this Situation, Should I Inform the Affair Partner's Spouse of Risky Behavior? 11/02/2016 Q&A Why Does He Continually Want Her and Not Me? 11/02/2016 Q&A How Can I Share My Anxiety and Concerns With Him? 10/24/2016 Q&A Why Would He Make a Decision to do This? 10/24/2016 Q&A What Does Prayerfully Consider Really Mean? 10/24/2016 Q&A How do you Know if Someone is a Sex Addict or Just Wanting Something More? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Long Should I Try to Hold On? 10/24/2016 Q&A qWhat Are Appropriate Separation Protocols? 10/24/2016 Q&A Is it Normal to Relive the Days During the Affair to Rewrite History? 10/24/2016 Q&A Did I Forgive Too Soon? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Many Times Should I Give Him Another Chance? 10/24/2016 Q&A Why Would He Do this After Already Inflicting so Much Pain? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Get Past this Lifelong Belief System? 10/24/2016 Q&Aqw How can the Unfaithful's Claimed Intentions be so Drastically Different from their Actions? 10/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Know if My Unfaithful Spouse is Truly Committed to the Marriage and Recovery? 10/24/2016 Q&A Is My Husband Evil, or Just Extremely Cruel? 10/24/2016 Q&A What are Scientific Psychological Side Effects from this sort of Marital Betrayal? 10/24/2016 Q&A Is it Possible to Stay in My Marriage With Fear Based Motivation and Find True Happiness Eventually? 10/24/2016 Q&A Should We Part Ways Now to Save Ourselves? 10/24/2016 Q&A Are There Any Similarities Between the Betrayed Spouses that Don't Reconcile? 10/24/2016 Q&A How do I Manage My Husband's Recovery? 10/24/2016 Q&A Will it Ever be Safe to Not Have Safe Sex With a Cheater? 10/24/2016 Q&A Will the Nightmare Ever End so I Can Find a Brighter Future? 10/24/2016 Q&A Can There be no Feelings After an 8 Year Affair? 10/18/2016 Q&A Is My Husband Lying or is the Polygraph Inaccurate? 10/18/2016 Q&A How Can I Heal From the Affair in the Midst of Ongoing Trauma? 10/18/2016 Q&A How Can I Show True Empathy for My Wife? 10/18/2016 Q&A What Caused Him to Have an Affair? 10/18/2016 Q&A Is it Worth Taking This Journey of Recovery? 10/18/2016 Q&A His Affair Partner is Toxic. Why Won't He Let Her Go? 10/18/2016 Q&A How do I Stop Being Ambivalent so I can Commit Back to the Marriage? 10/12/2016 Q&A Who Would Want to be Empathetic Toward Their Spouse if They Had an Affair? 10/12/2016 Q&A How can My Unfaithful Mate Help Me When I Flood Emotionally? 10/12/2016 Q&A How do I Forgive a Lifetime of Infidelity? 10/12/2016 Q&A Why do I Break Down When I'm Shown Empathy? 10/12/2016 Q&A Was His Infidelity Based on Me Not Being Who He Wants? 10/12/2016 Q&A Can We Heal from Infidelity if My Mate Isn't Empathetic, Won't Talk About it, and Blows Up When I Bring it Up? 10/11/2016 Q&A How Can I Communicate With My Spouse After Her Affairs? 10/11/2016 Q&A Should Our Son Know the Affair Partner's Name? 10/11/2016 Q&A How did My Cycle of Grace Become My Cycle of Failure? 10/11/2016 Q&A How do We Heal if There was a Child from the Affair? 10/11/2016 Q&A I Stopped the Affair. Will I Cheat Again? 10/11/2016 Q&A Why Isn't She Remorseful After Her Affair? 10/11/2016 Q&A After His Affair, Will I Ever Trust Him Again? 10/11/2016 Q&A If He's Been so Good at Lying, How Can I Trust His Story of the Affair? 10/11/2016 Q&A How Much Should He Tell Me About His Recovery? 10/11/2016 Q&A How do I Keep From Comparing Our Sex Against the Sex He Had with His Affair Partner? 10/11/2016 Q&A If Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater, How do I Feel Safe? 9/28/2016 Q&A How and When do I Process All the Information of the Affairs? 9/28/2016 Q&A Is Recovery from an Affair Possible if My Mate Can't be Empathetic? 9/28/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…656667686970717273…next ›last »