All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Power of Small Groups Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How to Survive Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 4912 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Signs do I Look for to Know that My Unfaithful Spouse is in Recovery? 9/28/2016 Q&A After More Trickle Truth, How do I Handle the Fear of More Information? 9/28/2016 Q&A Can We Recover From His Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A I was Unfaithful. Why do I Feel Betrayed? 9/28/2016 Q&A How do I Feel Safe When My Mate Wants Someone Else? 9/28/2016 Q&A How do I Stop Comparing Myself to the Affair Partner? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Can We Safely be Sexually Intimate Again After the Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A Will My Spouse Come Around or is it Time to End it After the Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A Can a Person be Addicted to Emotional Affairs? 9/28/2016 Q&A Should I Stay in Touch With My Spouse While he is With the Affair Partner? 9/28/2016 Q&A Is This a Reasonable Stand for Me to Take with My Unfaithful Spouse? 9/28/2016 Q&A After Decades of Lying, is it Possible to be Truthful? 9/28/2016 Q&A How do I Feel Safe When My Spouse Won't Address the Issues that Allowed the Infidelity? 9/28/2016 Q&A What does Full Disclosure of an Affair Look Like Practically? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Can I Productively Let My Spouse Know Our Current Reality After His Affairs? 9/28/2016 Q&A How do I Learn to Enjoy My Spouse Again After Their Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Can I Stop Thinking About Seeking Justice With the Affair Partners? 9/28/2016 Q&A Can We Heal Without Counseling or Other Work After Their Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A Can We Reconcile While the Affair Partner is Still in the Picture? 9/28/2016 Q&A What's Appropriate in Terms of Sexual Needs for the Betrayed? 9/28/2016 Q&A After Harboring Hope, What Resources Are Suggested to Continue Healing After Infidelity? 9/28/2016 Q&A Is Our Marriage Too Broken to Fix After Her Multiple Affairs? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Can I Handle My Wife Not Being Intimate After Her Affair? 9/28/2016 Q&A How Do I Stay in a Cycle of Grace Vs. Performance? 9/22/2016 Q&A Can You Please Explain How the Pain of Sex and Love Addiction can be Transmitted to Children? 9/22/2016 Q&A What if I Need to go Through All the Material I Collected from My Mate's Infidelity? 9/22/2016 Q&A Is There Any Benefit of My Husband Writing Another Termination Letter to His Affair Partner? 9/22/2016 Q&A What Should I Do After These Continued Affairs? 9/22/2016 Q&A My Husband Insists We Move Forward Without Discussing the Affair. Is it Possible? 9/22/2016 Q&A After His Affairs, He Isn't Broken. Can We Heal? 9/22/2016 Q&A What Should I do to Help Her from Going Back to the Affair Partner? 9/22/2016 Q&A How do I Deal With Anger and Lack of Trust After the Affair Has Ended? 9/22/2016 Q&A Should We Wait to Discuss the Affair and Work on Ourselves First? 9/22/2016 Q&A Am I Overreacting About Occasional Pornography Use? 9/22/2016 Q&A How About an EMS Weekend Part 2? 9/22/2016 Q&A Which Anniversary do We Celebrate After Infidelity? 9/22/2016 Q&A Do We Have a Higher Risk for Relapse? 9/22/2016 Q&A Why Can't My Mate Stay Away from the Affair Partner? 9/22/2016 Q&A How Can I Ever Compare to the Addiction Sex? 9/22/2016 Q&A Why Didn't Anyone Tell Me? 9/22/2016 Q&A How do We Handle This Challenge Regarding Safety? 9/22/2016 Q&A What's the Relationship Between Trauma and Infidelity? 9/22/2016 Q&A Any Reassurance that I'm Not Totally Abnormal Sexually? 9/14/2016 Q&A How Can I Not Blame Myself for Their Affair? 9/14/2016 Q&A How Can Someone Completely Ignore Their Spouse Like This? 9/14/2016 Q&A I Feel Unloved, He Feels Unappreciated, How Can We Heal? 9/14/2016 Q&A How Could I Do This to My Mate? 9/14/2016 Q&A Can We Find a Way for Me to Feel Safe and My Mate Keep the Dream Job? 9/14/2016 Q&A Is God Not Opening the Right Door or is My Mate Not Walking Through? 9/14/2016 Q&A Why Did They Do Something We Can't Do Together? 9/14/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…666768697071727374…next ›last »
