Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Betrayed Spouse with Her Anger and Resentment?
5/28/2020
Q&A How Can I Stay Calm While Talking about the Affair?
5/28/2020
Q&A Can past Depression or PTSD Affect the Ability to Show Empathy?
5/19/2020
Q&A What Do I Do When My Wife Drinks and Get so Angry?
5/07/2020
Q&A What Is the Process for Dealing with Raw Spots?
4/30/2020
Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Managing My Emotions during Recovery?
4/30/2020
Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Husband from Continuously Shutting Down?
4/30/2020
Q&A I Am Trying to Be Safe for My Wife, but How Can I Feel Safe from Her?
4/28/2020
Q&A Why Am I Having an Emotional Reaction When My Spouse Shows Interest in Things Besides Recovery?
4/28/2020
Q&A What Strategies Can I Use for Patience during Recovery?
4/16/2020
Q&A How Do We Stop This Exhausting, Vicious, Cycle?
3/26/2020
Q&A Can You Help Me Reframe My Thinking?
3/19/2020
Q&A How Do I Counter the Serious Assault on My Self Esteem?
3/16/2020
Q&A How Can I Be Authentic and Safe with My Emotions during Recovery?
3/16/2020
Q&A When My Husband Turns My Anger around on Me Is That Gaslighting?
3/12/2020
Q&A Is Depression Normal Eight Months out from Discovery?
3/03/2020
Q&A How Do I Know When to Avoid Reminders and When to Push through Them?
2/20/2020
Q&A How Can We Reach Honesty without Creating Triggers?
2/20/2020
Q&A Are My Feelings a Step Backward?
2/14/2020
Q&A When and How Do We Work through Triggers and Who Pursues Who in Our Marriage?
1/31/2020
Q&A What Recommendations Do You Have for Creating Safety with This Particular Trigger?
1/31/2020
Q&A How Do I Get past the Things I Think He Might Have Said to Her?
1/31/2020
Q&A Who Am I to Get Triggered When She's the One Who Was Betrayed?
1/09/2020
Q&A Where Can I Get Help for My Trauma?
1/09/2020
Q&A How to I Transform My Flooding and Anger so That I Stop Transmitting It?
1/03/2020
Q&A How Do I Deal with My Feelings and My PTSD?
1/02/2020
Q&A How Can I Overcome the Intrusive Thoughts during the Holidays?
12/05/2019
Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Numb after so Much Trickle Truth?
12/05/2019
Q&A Could You Talk a Little Bit about Emotional Self-Regulation?
11/22/2019
Q&A At What Point Do the Thoughts, Feelings, and Mental Pictures Go Away?
11/21/2019
Q&A Can You Help Me Better Understand My Anger?
11/21/2019
Q&A How Do I Move Past the Shock of This?
11/14/2019
Q&A What Is the Best Strategy for Dealing with Lingering Details of an Affair?
11/13/2019
Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Balancing Recovery and Wanting to Be Joyful and Present at the Same Time?
11/13/2019
Q&A How Do I Wrap My Head around This When Nothing Seems to Fit Our Situation?
11/06/2019
Q&A Can You Recommend Ways to Overcome Vulnerable Thoughts and Feelings?
11/05/2019
Q&A Do You Have Suggestions for Overcoming Comparison Thoughts?
11/05/2019
Q&A Am I Being Overly Sensitive?
10/23/2019
Q&A Is My Social Anxiety Normal at This Stage of Recovery?
10/16/2019
Q&A What Do You Recommend for Diminishing or Ceasing Anxiety Attacks?
10/02/2019
Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Changing How I View Myself Physically?
10/02/2019
Q&A How Do I Get the Affair Partner out of My Head?
9/26/2019
Q&A How Do I Overcome This Overwhelming Trigger?
9/26/2019
Q&A How Do I Let Go of My Doubts and Hyper-Vigilance?
9/18/2019
Q&A Should I Cancel My Polygraph Due to My Anxiety Level?
9/18/2019
Q&A Am I Controlling My Spouse or Is This the Appropriate Way to Set Boundaries?
9/18/2019
Q&A What Can I Do to Keep These Triggers from Impacting Me so Much?
9/13/2019
Q&A How Do I Heal from the Intrusive Thoughts That Came as Result of Recording and Listening to My Mates Conversations with the Affair Partner?
9/13/2019
Q&A How Long Will It Take for My Husband to Retrain His Thinking?
9/13/2019
Q&A Is There Something Wrong with Me Because I Still Love in Spite of All This?
9/13/2019