For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A My Wife Says She Didn’t Mean to Hurt Me. How Do I Respond to This?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible for the Wayward Spouse to Recover from the Affair If They Don't Really Grieve the Loss of the Relationship?
Video icon Q&A How Can These Two Programs Be Helpful in Such a Mess of a Situation?
Video icon Q&A If My Spouse Is Going through the Hope for Healing Course, Should I Expect to See His Emotions Roller Coaster like Mine?
Video icon Q&A Do I Quit Expressing My Hurt, Asking Questions, and Pray for Peace in Our Remaining Years?
Video icon Q&A Is Going No Contact with the Affair Partner Suggested or Discussed during Hope for Healing?
Video icon Q&A Is There Anything I Can Do to Prevent Flashbacks of Photos I Have Seen?
Video icon Q&A Did My Husband Prefer His Affair Partner over Me?
Video icon Q&A Is This Healthy or Are My Concerns Valid?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand It’s Not about Him and His Pain?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Cherish the Positive Family Moments That Happened during the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Why Has My Husband Re-written Our Marital History?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Accept That His Actions Were Willful and Done without Any Regard of My Feelings?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Understand My Ex-husband's Motive?
Video icon Q&A What Would Enabling the Affair Look Like?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Wayward Husband Having a Difficult Time with 'Why'?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Start a New Relationship without Fear That This Will Happen Again?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Trust My Husband in the Future If Only He and I Know?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Heal When He Still Has to Have Contact with Her Because of Her Job?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Now Distinguish between Truth and Deception?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Heal from This Level of Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A Does the Length of the Affair Have Implications for Our Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Do I Stop Encouraging My Mate to Participate in Hope for Healing and Quit Communicating with Him?
Video icon Q&A Is My Request for Confrontation Reasonable?
Video icon Q&A What If You Feel the Wayward Spouse Is Not Telling the Whole Truth during the Telling of Their Story?
Video icon Q&A Where Is the Empathy for Me?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Ever Feel Comfortable Being in a Place with My Husband without Searching for Women Whom I Know Fit His Sexual Criteria?
Video icon Q&A Will This Ever Get Better and How Can I Help Myself to Recover This Part of My Marriage?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Make the Hard Decision to Stay or Move on after All These Years?
Video icon Q&A Why Am I Having an Emotional Reaction When My Spouse Shows Interest in Things Besides Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Is It Time for Me to Find My Own Counselor and Begin to Exit This Relationship?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Work to Create an Environment Where My Wayward Spouse Feels Safe?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Maintain Recovery During Times of Crisis?
Video icon Q&A Is It Really Possible for a Man to Fall Back in Love with His Wife If He Was in Love with His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Can I Trust This as Real Change or Just Further Manipulation?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand My Concerns?
Video icon Q&A Will We Ever Be Able to Restore Trust in Our Marriage?
Video icon Q&A Should We Continue EMS Online If My Spouse Continues to Blame Me for the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know Limerance Isn’t What My Husband Feels for Me?
Video icon Q&A Why Do Wayward Spouses Want to Stay in the Marriage?
Video icon Q&A What Was My Husband Telling Himself When He Told Me All These Lies?
Video icon Q&A What Kind of Affair Did My Husband Have and What Does It Mean for Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Reframe My Thinking?
Video icon Q&A Is My Husband Normal, Sick, or Was He Temporarily Insane?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do to Support My Mate in Breaking Contact with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle Being in the Friend Zone with My Wife?
Video icon Q&A How Long Does It Take for the Wayward Spouse to See Clearly?
Video icon Q&A Can I Get My Motivation Back?
Video icon Q&A Is There Any Way to Help My Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Fear around My Ex-Wife's Possible Relationship?