For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

1216 Resources
Type Title Posted
Video icon Q&A What Do You Call This Behavior?
Video icon Q&A Would Leaving the Marriage Now That He Is Sick Seem Heartless and Cruel?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When I Don't Believe Something That He Consistently Says Is True?
Video icon Q&A Is It Wrong to Avoid Contact with In-Laws since My Wayward Husband Villainized Me to Them?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move Forward and Continue with Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Does Anyone Know the Name of What My Spouse Does to Keep from Answering a Question with the Truth?
Video icon Q&A Is Soliciting Prostitutes Always Due to an Addiction?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Turn off Rumination without Getting Validation from My Husband?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Handle Ambivalence without Being Co-Dependent?
Video icon Q&A Is There a Way to Determine the Difference between an Affair Being Motivated by Revenge as Opposed to the Wayward Spouse Justifying an Affair or Are They One in the Same?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Begin to Deal with This Being True?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get over the Constant Reminder and Trigger?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Find a Happy Medium Where I Can Learn to Be Myself Again, While Still Connecting with Him and Learning to Trust Him Again?
Video icon Q&A Is It Common to Loose Feelings for Your Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal from the Damage of the Internet?
Video icon Q&A Will I Ever See My Husband as ‘Mine’ Again?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get to the Truth?
Video icon Q&A Will the Same Debilitating Pain Continue to Happen over the Years?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Give up This Need That Is Always in the Back of My Mind?
Video icon Q&A When Is It Appropriate to Communicate to My Spouse That Their Behavior Is Not Acceptable?
Video icon Q&A What Guidelines Can I Share for Friends or Family Who Are Trying to Be Supportive?
Video icon Q&A How Can Any Person Not Know Why They Have Done Something?
Video icon Q&A Is There a Time to Reconcile with Friends Involved in the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Process My Husband's Behavior While We Were Divorced?
Video icon Q&A Should I Be Working on Being Strong Enough to Leave?
Video icon Q&A Can You Please Give Me Some More Information on a Written Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A How Is It Possible to Compartmentalize the Way My Husband Did?
Video icon Q&A How Long Do I Put up with My Wife's Ambivalence?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do If I Now Have Too Much Detail?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Make the Pictures Disappear?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Get past Both Betrayals?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Deal with Your Own Parents and Siblings Not Supporting Your Reconciliation?
Video icon Q&A Could His Early Experience Have Played a Part in His Affair and His Attitude Toward Sex Now?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Husband Still Cannot Recommit to the Marriage?
Video icon Q&A Should I Spend the Last Best Years of My Life Married, Surviving Infidelity, or Divorced?
Video icon Q&A Would It Be Harmful to Ask If, and for How Long, There May Have Been Flashbacks or Memories of a Physical Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Long Is Too Long for Grieving?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with This New Information That I Apparently Am Incompatible with Her Now?
Video icon Q&A Am I Overreacting or Is My Husband Not Taking Responsibility?
Video icon Q&A If Our Marriage Was So Wonderful, Why Did He Have an Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Believe My Spouse Has Broken off the Affair?
Video icon Q&A My Husband Became a Bitter Person, What Should I Do?
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Have to Work for Truth When I Was Not the One That Was Unfaithful?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask for Details?
Video icon Q&A Why I Am the One That Needs Reassurance and Not My Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Reengage and Begin Moving Forward Again?
Video icon Q&A Am I Crazy to Even Think There Is a Chance for Us?
Video icon Q&A Is He Telling the Truth or Gaslighting Me?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When the Spouse of My Husband's Affair Partner Attempts to Contact Me?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Wayward Wife's Friendships?