For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A Why Am I So Afraid to Be Happy?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for the Ways I Reacted as the Betrayed?
Video icon Q&A Will I Ever Love and Desire My Husband Again?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Ex-Husband Now Playing the Victim?
Video icon Q&A Could My Husband Be Done with Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How I Can Move Forward and Get past the Feeling That I Don’t Have the Full Story?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Move Forward When He’s Still Holding on to Resentment Towards Me and I’m the Betrayed?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling like My Husband Needs to Own up to the Affair to People in His Life?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong to Demand Him to Quit His Job for My Own Healing?
Video icon Q&A When Will I Stop Asking Questions?
Video icon Q&A Is It Normal for an Unfaithful Spouse Get Upset Whenever Asked to Talk about the Inappropriate Behavior?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Know My Husband's Yellow-Light Behaviors?
Video icon Q&A Can I Trust That He Is Being Honest?
Video icon Q&A Why Can't I Forgive One of the Multiple Affairs?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Seeking the ‘20% Guy’?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get My Husband to Understand the Importance of Boundaries?
Video icon Q&A Is It Appropriate to Abstain from Sex until Safety and Emotional Intimacy Have Been Established?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Heal When I'm Sharing My Wife with a Coworker?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Regain Sexual Attraction to My Husband?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Salvage My Spiritual Relationship?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do with the Evidence?
Video icon Q&A Why Did the Wayward Spouse Want to Reconcile, but Is Now in a Relationship with His Affair Partner Post-Divorce?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle This Lapse in Motherhood When I’ve Been Needed?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get to the Point That I Feel Good about the Way That I Look?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stay in a Marriage with My Husband Who Won't Open up with Me?
Video icon Q&A Can We Heal Even When He Still Can’t Give Me a Full Account of His Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Stop Seeing Her Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Still Feel like Its My Fault She Had a Affair? Is This Normal for Betrayed Men?
Video icon Q&A As a Betrayed Spouse, How Do I Work through My Humiliation?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get My Memories Pure and Special Again?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Feel Safe Again?
Video icon Q&A Did He Really Not Consider Me or His Children?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get These Constant Reminders Out of My Head?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with Constant Relapse?
Video icon Q&A Can You Clarify the Statement, ‘Don't Rebuild Your Old Marriage. You Must Build Something New’?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle In-Laws?
Video icon Q&A Should I Even Consider Staying or Working on the Marriage?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do to Move Forward in My Relationship with My Husband?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Know My Mate Didn't Just Prefer Sex With Someone Else?
Video icon Q&A How Probable It Is That He Can Stop Cheating and Have a Normal Sex Life?
Video icon Q&A As the Betrayed, How Do I Stop Obsessing About the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband's Refusal to Consider Accountability?
Video icon Q&A Why Did My Wayward Husband Share Our Children’s Lives with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A I'm the Hurt Partner and I'm Extremely Codependent, Now What?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When My Husband's Needs Are a Trigger for Me?
Video icon Q&A Should I Ask Him the Questions I Have About Presents That He Gave to Her?
Video icon Q&A Would Her Medication Have Created the Same Brain Chemicals as Limerence?
Video icon Q&A Is My Wife's On-Going Ambivalence Towards Our Relationship the Best That I Can Hope For?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move Forward with My Husband If There Is No Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A How Much Pain Can One Take before They Break?