For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When Exercise Is a Trigger?
Video icon Q&A Is This Ultimatum Unreasonable?
Video icon Q&A Could You Help?
Video icon Q&A Should I Ask Him to Hear My Story?
Video icon Q&A Is It Time to Just Formally End My Marriage?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do with His Lapse in Judgement?
Video icon Q&A Must I Be Completely Finished with the Grieving Task before I Can Move to Forgiveness?
Video icon Q&A Is It Wrong to Ask My Husband to Understand the Affair Partner's Personality Disorder?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Figure Out What to Do?
Video icon Q&A Should He Leave His Job?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do with an Ambivalent Partner When a Baby Is Involved?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know if My Husband Has Completely Detoxed From the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Census of Disclosing the Affair to the Affair Partner's Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Address My Overwhelming Fear?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Discern If or When It's Safe to Trust Him Again?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do about My Defensive Husband That Doesn't Follow through on His Commitments to the Marriage?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do about a Husband That Does Not Want to Work on Himself?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move on with My Wayward Husband?
Video icon Q&A How Should the Betrayed Respond When the Wayward Spouse Lashes Out?
Video icon Q&A How Can He Do All of This Good Recovery Work and Still Lie?
Video icon Q&A Is It Appropriate to Ask the Wayward Spouse to Take a Polygraph?
Video icon Q&A How Does He Change His Behavior If He Can Not See Himself Doing It?
Video icon Q&A Am I Being Too Hard or Unreasonable?
Video icon Q&A What Would Be a Good Plan for Me Going Forward?
Video icon Q&A Is This Approach Sufficient for Healing Our Marriage after His 7-Year Affair?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible for an Addiction of This Severity to Change So Quickly?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Respect My Husband after What He Has Done to Me and Our Family after Multiple Lies, Betrayal, and Affairs?
Video icon Q&A Is There Anything Else I Should Be Doing?
Video icon Q&A Is a Trauma Bond Repairable?
Video icon Q&A Is It Codependent to Stay in a Marriage for the Happiness of Your Children?
Video icon Q&A Can I Get My Husband to Try?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move Forward in This Situation When All I Feel Is Anger?
Video icon Q&A Will He Ever Go Back to Being the Man I Used to Know?
Video icon Q&A Is It Ever Just Too Much to Get Past?
Video icon Q&A Should I Suggest to My Spouse That He Take Hope for Healing While I’m Taking Harboring Hope or Should He Be the One to Suggest Taking It?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do for My Sanity Now?
Video icon Q&A Should I File for Divorce?
Video icon Q&A Is There Any Hope for Recovery in Our Situation?
Video icon Q&A Do You Recommend Sharing the Discovery Week of Harboring Hope with My Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Was it Really Love?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get Him to Get It?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Refuses to Acknowledge That Emotional Affairs Are Valid?
Video icon Q&A Do I Just Wait for Him to Decide?
Video icon Q&A Have You Ever Heard of Couples Recreating Sexual Encounters between the Wayward Spouse and Affair Partner on Purpose?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Take Control of My Life So That I Can Forgive and Heal?
Video icon Q&A Why Is It That My Husband Made the Affair Partners Feel Special but Finds It Hard to Make His Own Wife Feel Special?
Video icon Q&A How Can Do We Get past This When She Doesn’t Believe She Had a Physical Affair?
Video icon Q&A Do I Stand by My Husband When He Wants Revenge on the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Should My Husband Contact His Affair Partner to Get an Answer Regarding Her Pregnancy Status?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask Her to Stop Social Media Use?