For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A What Do I Do If My Husband Won't Get Help?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Find Balance between Healing Myself and Healing Our Relationship?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Address My Spouse's Flirtatious Behaviors?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When My Wayward Spouse See's the Affair as My Fault?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Define Healing for the Betrayed Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Can a Couple Really Benefit from Doing This Work Every Week without the Wayward Spouse Initiating and Participating in Disclosure Attempts?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible That She Believed Her Emotional Affair Was Not Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A Is My Husband a Sex Addict?
Video icon Q&A Why Doesn’t It Seem He Wants a Healthy Wife and Be Safe for Her?
Video icon Q&A How Could Sex Mean Something with Me When My Mate Still Wanted It with Someone Else?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Manage Recovery from Both My Affair My Mates Addiction?
Video icon Q&A How Do I View D-Day as the Date He Chose Me Rather Than the Day He Was Leaving Me?
Video icon Q&A Have I Done Enough on My Part to Try and Heal ‘Us’?
Video icon Q&A What Is the True Meaning of ‘Being Safe’ for the Injured Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Why Shouldn't the Betrayed Spouse Confront the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle the Fact That My Husband’s ‘Safe Place’ for Porn and Masturbation Has Primarily Been at Work?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get over My Husband's past Behavior?
Video icon Q&A Is the Affair a Result of My Mates Addiction Issues?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Protect Myself from Getting an STD If My Husband Has Another Affair Again?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Move on after He Was so Intentional in Hurting Me?
Video icon Q&A Is There Any Reason for Me to Contact My Mates Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband's Response to the Truth in Love Exercise?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get My Wayward Spouse to End the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Comparing Myself to the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to See the Time during the Affair as Something Other Than Tainted or Fake?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know She Believes What I Say?
Video icon Q&A What Is Hindering My Mate from Showing Empathy?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Confront My Husband?
Video icon Q&A Why Did His Guilt over the Affair Partner Win out over Me and Our Marriage?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get past the Things I Think He Might Have Said to Her?
Video icon Q&A Was I Wrong for Questioning Him or Is There a Better Way I Could’ve Approached This?
Video icon Q&A What Does Transparency, Accountability, and External Controls Look like in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with My Husband Sharing Specific Details about Me with His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A When Do I Know That It’s Time for Me to Leave?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get past the Different Versions of the Story?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Ever Trust Again without Knowing the Full Truth?
Video icon Q&A Am I Expecting Too Much from My Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Can I Trust That the Affair Is Really Over?
Video icon Q&A How Long Should I Stay and Work on the Relationship before Leaving?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with My Feelings and My PTSD?
Video icon Q&A Will the Hope for Healing Course Be Effective for My Husband?
Video icon Q&A Why Does the Affair Partner Want to Meet Me?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get My Wayward Spouse to Understand That This Is a Big Deal?
Video icon Q&A Should I Continue Trying to Convince My Wayward Spouse to Seek Counseling?
Video icon Q&A Why Would My Husband Lie about His Desire for Me?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Create Safety During Military Deployment?
Video icon Q&A My Husband Is Having a Hard Time Recommitting. What Can I Do?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Overcome the Intrusive Thoughts during the Holidays?
Video icon Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Numb after so Much Trickle Truth?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Begin to Trust with All of the Trickle Truth Happening?