Q&A Recovery Library

Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally.
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Video icon Q&A What Are the Best Boundaries to Make When My Husband and I Are Having a Discussion about My Healing and He Starts to Get Really Angry?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Navigate This Situation?
Video icon Q&A Do You Think I Should Send the Letter That I Wrote to My Husband's Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Could This Method of Coping and the Escalation Not Indicate a Sexual Addiction Even Though the Person Only Used Porn Casually?
Video icon Q&A When Is the Right Time for Confrontation and How Do I Tell Him I Know about the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Is It Unreasonable Of Me to Ask Him to Get Tested Now?
Video icon Q&A Am I Hurting Us More by Not Letting Him Live at Home?
Video icon Q&A What Resources Can I Give My Family for Supporting Me through This Time and Setting Healthy Boundaries?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Best Response for My Husband?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Help Him Understand That I Need to Know about All His Emotional Affairs?
Video icon Q&A Did My Husband Have an Affair Because He Felt Unloved and Unappreciated In Our Marriage?
Video icon Q&A Is Fantasy Sex a Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A Should I Be Considering Any Restrictions on Her Access to Our Children If She Continues to Act Out?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get Over the Fact That My Wife Gave Her Affair Partner More Intense and Passionate Sex Than She Has Ever Given Me?
Video icon Q&A Is There Anything I Can Be Doing to Leave an Opening for a Different Path?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Divorce Rate beyond 5 Years after Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Create a Safe Boundary for Myself While Showing Him Grace and Not Reject His Desire to Open up to Me and Reconnect?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Find the Strength to Stay When It Means I Will Have to Be a Father to the Child of Her Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A How Do I as the Betrayed Quit Hitting the Wrong Side of His Ambivalence?
Video icon Q&A Are There Any Tips on How to Handle Someone Who Is Not Displaying Remorse, Is Full Of Anger and Pain, And Deeply Depressed?
Video icon Q&A When Faced with Such a Painful Outcome as This, What Is a Spouse Able to Do Aside from Self-Care and Healing?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get past the Feeling That Our Marriage Is a Lie?
Video icon Q&A Did He Only Quit Because He Got Caught?
Video icon QQ&A Am I Wrong to Keep Demanding an Explanation about How the Affair Started Instead of Letting It Go?
Video icon Q&A Why Would He Hire This Particular Escort?
Video icon Q&A I Want Proof That His Affair Partner Has Been Contacted and Told That It Is 100% Over and He Will Never Contact Her Again. How Do I Go About This?
Video icon Q&A Why Does My Husband, Who Says He Wants to Reconcile, Keep Bringing up All My Shortcomings?
Video icon Q&A Are My Good Acts Just More Manipulation?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Tell If the Problem Isn’t My Mate, but Me?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Best Help Our Child Who Discovered the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Complicated Family Situation?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal With My Spouse’s Defensiveness?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do in the Meantime?
Video icon Q&A Is There Correlation to Infidelity and Attachment Styles?
Video icon Q&A What Are the Old Behaviors That I Should Seek to Avoid?
Video icon Q&A Does Experimental Same Sex Acting Out Require Special Layers or Nuances to the Recovery Process?
Video icon Q&A Do We Try to Get Ahead of Public Backlash?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Love Her through Her Controlling Issues While Still Maintaining My Sanity?
Video icon Q&A What Do We Tell Our Teenage Children?
Video icon Q&A Should I Receive a Disclosure Letter from My Spouses Work in Hope for Healing?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Ever Build Trust?
Video icon Q&A Should I Ask My Wife to Take Another Polygraph?
Video icon Q&A Is It Wrong to Expect My Husband to Stop Contact with an Affair Partner Who Is Close to the Family and My Best Friend?
Video icon Q&A Is It Too Soon to Begin Having Sex Again?
Video icon Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about a Post Infidelity Contract?
Video icon Q&A Is There a Seventh Type of Affair?
Video icon Q&A How on Earth Do I Enforce Boundaries during This Time without Pushing Her Back to the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Decide What to Do?
Video icon Q&A What Advice Do You Have For Telling My Spouse That I Know About Their Affair and Who the Affair Partner Is?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get Him to See My Perspective?