Safety in Recovery

The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.

1040 Resources
Type Title Posted
Video icon Q&A What Boundaries should I Set Before my Mate Comes Home?
Audio icon Q&A Are these Ground Rules Sufficient to be Safe from the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Can I Tell the Affair Partner she's Not Loved?
Video icon Q&A Is there any Hope for our Marriage?
Video icon Q&A Do you Ever Recommend Separating?
Video icon Q&A How can I Love her After what She's Done?
Video icon Q&A Should we let the AP's Know that it's Over?
Video icon Q&A At what Point do I Move on?
Video icon Q&A What is he Addicted to?
Video icon Q&A How do I Respond to Continual Lies?
Video icon Q&A Will he Ever Get Over her?
Video icon Q&A How can I get Past a Desire for Revenge?
Video icon Q&A Can I Heal While Spouse is Active in an Affair?
Audio icon Q&A What Next?
Audio icon Q&A What Affects do Polygraphs have on Recovery?
Audio icon Q&A Should I Secretly Install Spyware on my Spouse's Phone?
Video icon Q&A Is this what PTSD Looks Like?
Video icon Q&A How do we Cope with the Ashley Madison Blackmail News?
Video icon Q&A Any Thoughts for a Hopeless Situation?
Video icon Q&A How Likely is my Mate to Cheat Again?
Video icon Q&A How can I Pretend to be Happy When I'm Not?
Video icon Q&A What do you Suggest I do Now?
Audio icon Q&A Does my Spouse Really Want to Save the Marriage?
Audio icon Q&A How Can I Encourage my Spouse to Get Help?
Audio icon Q&A How do I Respond to Ambivalence?
Video icon Q&A Should I be Leading our Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Is it Infidelity if we were Separated?
Video icon Q&A Should I Start Over While I Still Can?
Video icon Q&A What Boundaries are Needed to Keep my Family Safe?
Video icon Q&A How Risky is a F.O.B.A.D.?
Video icon Q&A How do I Deal with my Spouse's Ambivalence?
Video icon Q&A Is There Hope for us to Move Forward After this Degree of Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How Does Trickle Truth Affect my Recovery Timeline?
Video icon Q&A How can I be Certain my Spouse has Disclosed Everything?
Video icon Q&A Should I Separate my Finances?
Video icon Q&A Is it Normal to Have Turmoil so Soon After EMS Weekend?
Video icon Q&A Can Someone go from Years of Unfaithfulness to Faithful at the Flip of a Switch?
Video icon Q&A Why is my Husband Resisting Change?
Video icon Q&A How do we Handle a Persistent Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A When Can the Betrayed Spouse Move on?
Video icon Q&A Should I Separate From my Unfaithful Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Set Boundaries While my Spouse is Having an Affair?
Video icon Q&A Should I Publicly Expose my Spouse's Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Why do They Continue to Lie?
Video icon Q&A My Spouse Works With Their Affair Partner. Will They Relapse?
Video icon Q&A Does my Husband Have a Problem he Can't Break?
Video icon Q&A What Does Godly Sorrow vs. Worldly Sorrow Look Like?
Audio icon Q&A How do I Decide to Stay or Go?
Audio icon Q&A Do you Think he Might be Lying Again?
Audio icon Q&A Why is it Not a Good Idea to Contact the AP?