Safety in Recovery

The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.

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Video icon Q&A Can an Addict Love Unconditionally?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do About My Friends?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Talk When My Buttons Are Pushed?
Video icon Q&A Should I Bail Out?
Video icon Q&A Are Simultaneous Affairs a Red Flag for Addiction?
Video icon Q&A How Could a Polygraph be a Threat if there is Nothing to Hide?
Video icon Q&A Does Safety Take Practice?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Believe My Spouse Now?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Feel Her Love When She Does This?
Video icon Q&A I Need Confirmation. Should I Leave Him?
Video icon Q&A Any Advice to Help With the Flooding?
Video icon Q&A Should We Achieve Full Disclosure Now or Wait?
Video icon Q&A Suggestions for a Stalker?
Video icon Q&A Am I Addicted to Limerance?
Video icon Q&A Will This Method of Disclosure Cause me More Harm?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Believe in Myself and the Honest Attempts of my Spouse?
Video icon Q&A What do you Suggest for Counseling and EMS Online?
Audio icon Q&A Are the Unfaithful Triggered by Contact?
Audio icon Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Spouse to Return?
Audio icon Q&A What Will the Future Hold in This Scenario?
Audio icon Q&A How Can I Feel Safety in an Unsafe Environment?
Audio icon Q&A Is My Newfound Independence Bad for Reconciliation?
Audio icon Q&A What Should I Be Looking for From My Spouse to Feel Safe?
Video icon Q&A At What Point is Reconciliation Not Possible?
Video icon Q&A What Else Can We do For Support?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Get Past This Issue?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help With the Unfaithful's Lack of Empathy?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help Him Understand My Need?
Audio icon Q&A (HH) Any Advice for Our Disclosure Challenges?
Audio icon Q&A (HH) Should I 'Know' Who She is?
Audio icon Q&A (HH) How do You Know if Your Unfaithful Spouse is Taking Responsibility or Still Lying?
Audio icon Q&A (HH) Can You Recommend a Conflict Resolution Plan for Us?
Audio icon Q&A (HH) Can You Offer Me Any Other Advice?
Audio icon Q&A (HH) How Can I Check Into My Spouse's Business Phone?
Audio icon Q&A (HH) How do You Know When to Invite an Unfaithful Spouse Home?
Audio icon Q&A (HH) When Should We Start Couples Counseling?
Video icon Q&A How do I Help My Unfaithful Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Does He Disconnect From Her and How Do We Reconnect?
Video icon Q&A Has Anyone Experienced This Double Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A How Can They Say They Won't do it Again if They Don't Even Know the Why?
Video icon Q&A Can She Do More for Me?
Video icon Q&A When is it Appropriate to Set Boundaries Confrontationally?
Video icon Q&A Are These Red Flags for Relapse?
Video icon Q&A What is the Right Thing to do in this Relationship?
Video icon Q&A What's in the Best Interest of the Child?
Audio icon Q&A Are these Boundaries Reasonable?
Audio icon Q&A Should I Confront my Former Best Friend, the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Any Practical Advice for Our Cycle?
Video icon Q&A Is this the AP's Manipulation?
Video icon Q&A Can a Sex Addict With This History be a Danger to Their Own Children?