Safety in Recovery

The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.

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Video icon Q&A Is it OK for Me to Say No Even Though it May Make Things Worse?
Video icon Q&A Have you Seen a Marriage Recover from this Kind of Affair?
Video icon Q&A What Can You make of All This?
Video icon Q&A How do I Deal With 'His and Hers' Affairs?
Video icon Q&A Why Can't He, and Will He Ever, Understand My Pain?
Video icon Q&A What Concerns Should I Have at this Point in Our Recovery from His Affair?
Video icon Q&A What is Protocol for a Couple in this Post Affair Scenario?
Video icon Q&A Should I Inform My Children of their Mother's Affair?
Video icon Q&A Can I Heal the Relationship With My Best Friend After Her Cheating With My Husband?
Video icon Q&A How do We Combat the Marathoning?
Video icon Q&A Where is the Line that Makes a Relationship an Affair?
Video icon Q&A How do We Deal With Chronic Pain, Medication Addiction, and Affair Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Work Through Resentment and Commit Back to My Mate?
Video icon Q&A Can a Sex Addict Simply Choose to Not Act Out?
Video icon Q&A Can You Please Explain Marathoning?
Video icon Q&A What Are Some Practical Steps or Books to Help With Fantasy Life?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Face the Triggers I Receive from His Workplace Reality?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Safely Break off Contact Between Our Kids and the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Since the Affair Story Still Hurts Him, Should We Let Sleeping Dogs Lie?
Video icon Q&A What Rules Should We Follow During Our No Contact Separation?
Video icon Q&A Should I Confront My Mate With the Evidence of His Relapse?
Video icon Q&A Should I Demand My Mate Take a Polygraph?
Video icon Q&A In this Situation, Should I Inform the Affair Partner's Spouse of Risky Behavior?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Share My Anxiety and Concerns With Him?
Video icon Q&A Is it Normal to Relive the Days During the Affair to Rewrite History?
Video icon Q&A Did I Forgive Too Soon?
Video icon Q&A How Many Times Should I Give Him Another Chance?
Video icon Q&A Why Would He Do this After Already Inflicting so Much Pain?
Video icon Q&Aqw How can the Unfaithful's Claimed Intentions be so Drastically Different from their Actions?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Know if My Unfaithful Spouse is Truly Committed to the Marriage and Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Will it Ever be Safe to Not Have Safe Sex With a Cheater?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Heal From the Affair in the Midst of Ongoing Trauma?
Video icon Q&A His Affair Partner is Toxic. Why Won't He Let Her Go?
Video icon Q&A How do I Stop Being Ambivalent so I can Commit Back to the Marriage?
Video icon Q&A Who Would Want to be Empathetic Toward Their Spouse if They Had an Affair?
Video icon Q&A How can My Unfaithful Mate Help Me When I Flood Emotionally?
Video icon Q&A Can We Heal from Infidelity if My Mate Isn't Empathetic, Won't Talk About it, and Blows Up When I Bring it Up?
Video icon Q&A I Stopped the Affair. Will I Cheat Again?
Video icon Q&A Why Isn't She Remorseful After Her Affair?
Video icon Q&A After His Affair, Will I Ever Trust Him Again?
Video icon Q&A If He's Been so Good at Lying, How Can I Trust His Story of the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Much Should He Tell Me About His Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How do I Keep From Comparing Our Sex Against the Sex He Had with His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A If Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater, How do I Feel Safe?
Video icon Q&A Is Recovery from an Affair Possible if My Mate Can't be Empathetic?
Video icon Q&A What Signs do I Look for to Know that My Unfaithful Spouse is in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How do I Feel Safe When My Mate Wants Someone Else?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Safely be Sexually Intimate Again After the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Should I Stay in Touch With My Spouse While he is With the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Is This a Reasonable Stand for Me to Take with My Unfaithful Spouse?