Safety in Recovery

The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.

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Video icon Q&A Should we Both Make Changes to be Safe?
Video icon Q&A Would it be Wise to Stop Asking Questions Now?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong for Making Him do This?
Video icon Q&A What's Reasonable to Make Me Feel Safe?
Video icon Q&A When Does Transparency Apply or Not Apply?
Video icon Q&A What is Your Opinion of Detachment in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Can I Feel Safe?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Manage the Relationships With My In-Laws?
Video icon Q&A Is Their Friendship Okay?
Audio icon Q&A How Can I Ensure My Safety?
Video icon Q&A What Will Relapse Prevention Look Like For Us?
Video icon Q&A Will the AP Lie?
Video icon Q&A What Are Some Signs of Safety?
Video icon Q&A Can You Give Us Some Hope?
Video icon Q&A He Failed the Polygraph. Now What?
Video icon Q&A Should I Disclose My Affair to My Father?
Audio icon Q&A Can You Have Reconciliation Without Forgiveness?
Audio icon Q&A Is it Possible to Heal All of This Alone?
Audio icon Q&A Is There Hope for Someone With a Lifelong Trail of Adultery?
Audio icon Q&A I Don't Know Whether to Stay or Go
Video icon Q&A How Much Work is Necessary?
Video icon Q&A Should I Ask My Husband to Email His Affair Partner to Defend Me?
Video icon Q&A What Are Your Thoughts About Our Current State of Healing?
Video icon Q&A Can There be Safety Without Recovery Work?
Video icon Q&A Do I Just Wait for Limerance to Fade?
Video icon Q&A Do I Have a Right to Contact the AP's Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Handle This Particular Work Challenge?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle the AP in This Difficult Situation?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Communicate When He Isn't Getting It?
Video icon Q&A Why Can't We Talk About It?
Video icon Q&A How Can it Be Safe With Someone so Selfish?
Video icon Q&A Do I Have All the Information Needed?
Video icon Q&A Is It Ever Okay To Express Anger?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle His Working With the AP?
Video icon Q&A Is This a Sign of Healthy Mistrust?
Video icon Q&A Why Does He Want to Fix the Marriage While He is With His AP?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Mean When You Have Us Say... ?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Keep Our Children Safe If We Run Into My Wife's Affair Partner While At a School Function?
Video icon Q&A My Spouse Is Not Taking Personal Responsibility and May Be a Sex Addict. I Feel Like Giving Up, Should I?
Video icon What’s the Most Effective Role for Me?
Video icon Q&A How Long Does My No-sex Agreement With My Unfaithful Wife Need to Last?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Communicate the Importance of My Spouse's Recovery?
Video icon Q&A What Consequences Should Follow Broken Boundaries?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do With the Pain?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal With His Failure and My Detachment?
Video icon Q&A How do I Transform my Pain?
Video icon Q&A Who Can I Talk to?
Video icon Q&A What About Emotional and Verbal Abuse in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How can I Feel Safe when my Mate's Affair was with their Ex?
Video icon Q&A Is it Possible to Recover if your Spouse is Still Deceitful?