Safety in Recovery

The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.

1040 Resources
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Video icon Q&A Should This Friendship End?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do to Get Him to Move Forward?
Video icon Q&A Is It Common to Relapse More Than Once?
Video icon Q&A Should I Consider Visiting Our Children without My Husband?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Advise for Me to Set Safe Boundaries and Expectations?
Video icon Q&A When Will My Mind Stop the Constant Back and Forth Emotions?
Video icon Q&A When Do Unfaithful Women Typically Begin to Show Empathy?
Video icon Q&A Will My Husband Ever Recommit to the Marriage?
Video icon Q&A Am I Sabotaging Our Relationship Because I'm Not Getting What I Want?
Video icon Q&A What Therapy Would You Suggest for Us?
Video icon Q&A Do You Think I'll Ever Feel Safe given These Circumstances?
Video icon Q&A What can I do to Deal with His Actions Toward Me?
Video icon Q&A Can I Speak to the Affair Partner in this Situation?
Video icon Q&A Should I Stay for the Kids and Just Deal with His Online Struggles?
Video icon Q&A Are his Recovery Steps Sufficient or is Something Missing?
Video icon Q&A How can we Achieve Transparency Without me Policing my Husband?
Video icon Q&A Can you Offer some Advice for Our Complex Situation?
Video icon Q&A How can Our Marriage Heal When Mental Illness Prevents Rational Affair Related Conversations?
Video icon Q&A Should I Actively Fight my Apathy Towards my Husband or Will it Break Down Naturally?
Video icon Q&A How can I Effectively Set a No Touch Boundary with My Husband?
Video icon Q&A How can I Set Boundaries Without Fear of Him Returning to the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How do I Let go of my Desire to See Him Suffer and Broken?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do as the Unfaithful When Triggers Arise?
Video icon Q&A Thankful my Skeletons are All Out, But Where do I go from Here?
Video icon Q&A How do Our Children and I Cope While Waiting for Him to Choose Us?
Video icon Q&A How can I Change my Negative Thoughts Before Launching into Anger?
Video icon Q&A How can I Stop my Victim Thinking and Take Ownership for my Issues?
Video icon Q&A How can a Betrayed Spouse Show Compassion for an Unempathetic Unfaithful Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How do I Know if He is Serious About Reconciliation?
Video icon Q&A How do we Respond to bad Dreams that Cause Triggers and Flooding?
Video icon Q&A How do we Start an Accountability Group?
Video icon Q&A How do I Function Normally in the World when I'm Actually a Sex Addict?
Video icon Q&A Is it my Fear or my Gut Causing me to Not Believe Him?
Video icon Q&A How can the Betrayed Cope with the Continual Lying?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Keep Getting Back Up?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong to Use History to Confront Current Behaviors?
Video icon Q&A Why is his Anger Growing and How Can I Help?
Video icon Q&A When do I Say I'm Moving On?
Video icon Q&A I want Recovery to Work, but Things Aren't Changing. Will it Get Better?
Video icon Q&A Are these Requests Appropriate for me to Ask for?
Video icon Q&A What are the Options Available Without Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A How do I Handle my Wife's Lack of Empathy?
Video icon Q&A How can my Wife and I Handle my Lingering Feelings for my Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A He Contacted the Affair Partner and Lied About it. What do I do?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Heal from Her Affair Under these Circumstances?
Video icon Q&A Can we Fully Recover from Her Affair Without Moving Our Family?
Video icon Q&A How do you Enforce Boundaries Short of Separation or Divorce?
Video icon Q&A What are the Signs to Watch for to Know a Liar has Stopped Lying?
Video icon Q&A Should 12 Step Work be a Requirement for a Sex Addict Wanting to Salvage the Marriage?
Video icon Q&A What Are Reasonable Expectations for Me Being Married to a Sex Addict?