Safety in Recovery

The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.

1040 Resources
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Video icon Q&A Will My Spouse Come Around or is it Time to End it After the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Can a Person be Addicted to Emotional Affairs?
Video icon Q&A After Decades of Lying, is it Possible to be Truthful?
Video icon Q&A How do I Feel Safe When My Spouse Won't Address the Issues that Allowed the Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Stop Thinking About Seeking Justice With the Affair Partners?
Video icon Q&A How do I Learn to Enjoy My Spouse Again After Their Affair?
Video icon Q&A Can We Heal Without Counseling or Other Work After Their Affair?
Video icon Q&A Can We Reconcile While the Affair Partner is Still in the Picture?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stay in a Cycle of Grace Vs. Performance?
Video icon Q&A What if I Need to go Through All the Material I Collected from My Mate's Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A Is There Any Benefit of My Husband Writing Another Termination Letter to His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do After These Continued Affairs?
Video icon Q&A My Husband Insists We Move Forward Without Discussing the Affair. Is it Possible?
Video icon Q&A After His Affairs, He Isn't Broken. Can We Heal?
Video icon Q&A What Should I do to Help Her from Going Back to the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How do I Deal With Anger and Lack of Trust After the Affair Has Ended?
Video icon Q&A Am I Overreacting About Occasional Pornography Use?
Video icon Q&A Do We Have a Higher Risk for Relapse?
Video icon Q&A How do We Handle This Challenge Regarding Safety?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Not Blame Myself for Their Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can Someone Completely Ignore Their Spouse Like This?
Video icon Q&A I Feel Unloved, He Feels Unappreciated, How Can We Heal?
Video icon Q&A Can We Find a Way for Me to Feel Safe and My Mate Keep the Dream Job?
Video icon Q&A Is God Not Opening the Right Door or is My Mate Not Walking Through?
Video icon Q&A Should I Quit My Job to Help My Mate Heal After My Affair?
Video icon Q&A How do I Explain to Our Kids Why Daddy Isn't Here?
Video icon Q&A Should I Let Go or is This Normal Behavior?
Video icon Q&A Could My Mate Not Have the Emotional Capacity to Recover?
Video icon Q&A Is There Any Hope for Healing in My Mate?
Video icon Q&A What are Reasonable Expectations and Words for My Unfaithful Mate?
Video icon Q&A What Can We Do to Make Them Leave Their AP?
Video icon Q&A Why is My Mate Not Making Healing and Recovery a Priority?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Forgive Without Reconciliation?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Face This Challenge With My Father-in-Law?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Move Past My Fear?
Video icon Q&A Why Does My Mate's Disclosure Not Make Sense?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate to Be Tested for STD's?
Video icon Q&A Is it My Mate or the Affair Partner Lying?
Video icon Q&A Is it Fantasy or Love?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do About My Thoughts Toward Others?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get Him to Give me Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do if My Mate Isn't Taking Responsibility?
Video icon Q&A What Are Reasonable Expectations for My Unfaithful Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Is it Too Risky to Work With a Former Limerant Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A With this Level of Drip Feeding Truth, Will I Regain Feelings for My Spouse?
Video icon Q&A If the Infidelity Continues, is it Time for Divorce?
Video icon Q&A Should I Hear My Mate's Feelings for the Affair Partner
Video icon Q&A Is Cheating Only Possible When He's Drunk?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Respond to the Continual Relapse?
Video icon Q&A The Affair Partner Moved Nearby, How Do I Escape My Bondage?