Q&A Recovery Library

Thousands of questions answered by infidelity expert Rick Reynolds, LCSW and other experts from one trusted source. Gain insights from professionals who not only have specialized in treating infidelity for decades but also have healed from infidelity personally.
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Video icon Q&A Where Does a Failed Polygraph Leave Us in Regards to a Timeline in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do If My Spouse Works with Their Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Us Understand Our Love Language Differences?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Make Your Partner Feel Understood, Trusted, like They Matter, and That It’s Ok to Make Mistakes, Without Enabling Bad Behavior?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible There Is a 7th Type of Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Continue Supporting Her While Taking Care of My Heart and Mental Health?
Video icon Q&A Why Can’t I Give My Spouse Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A Is It OK for the Wayward Spouse to Keep in Touch with Affair Partners from the past That Happened Years before Us?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Best Way to Discuss the Questions That Most Wayward Spouses Get from the Betrayed?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Let Myself Be Happy Again?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle Defensiveness?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move Forward Knowing That He Already Has The Mindset That This Could Happen Again?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Convince Her to Engage More in the Group Therapy?
Video icon Q&A How Could He Go from One Affair to Another?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do to Support Him but Also Be Heard?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get Over This Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Ever Get Over His Believing He Loved The Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Communicate So That He Does Not Feel Condemned?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle Disclosure When My Infidelity Was So Long Ago and I Can’t Remember All the Details?
Video icon Q&A As a Betrayed Husband Is It Unrealistic to Want My Wife to Pursue Me Physically?
Video icon Q&A What If the Hurt Spouse Needs More Information than the Wayward Spouse Is Willing to Give?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get past the Uncontrollable Fear of This Happening Again or That It Is Still Happening?
Video icon Q&A Can You Please Give Me a Detailed Outline of What a Structured Separation Is and How to Implement It?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Heal the Relationship with the Betrayed’s Extended Family?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Continue in This Process When Only One of Us Is Committed?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Move Forward after Several Relapses?
Video icon Q&A How Much Harder Will Our Recovery Be in This Situation?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Put In the Effort Needed on My End for Intimacy without Getting the Same Failed Result?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Trust Him Again?
Video icon Q&A If My Spouse Felt So Much Guilt and Shame the First Time, Why Did They Do It Again?
Video icon Q&A How Should I Handle My Spouse Threatening to Harm Me?
Video icon Q&A How Was He Able to Do a 180 Turn on Discovery?
Video icon Q&A How Should I as a Wayward Spouse Approach My Spouse’s Continual Desire for Reassurance?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Create a Shared View of Our Relationship When We Have No Valid Timelines to Reference?
Video icon Q&A Why Was It Easy for Him to Be Nice to Everyone but Me, His Wife?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Emotionally Connect with Someone Who Treats Me This Way?
Video icon Q&A How Long Does It Take for Desire for My Mate to Return after Severing Ties with My Affair Partners?
Video icon Q&A How Long Should I Accept and Validate His Exaggerated Reactions as a Result of My Previously Reckless Behaviors?
Video icon Q&A Do You Agree It’s Necessary to Re-Establish No Contact?
Video icon Q&A Why Don’t I Respect My Husband?
Video icon Q&A How Should I Go About Trying to Get to Ground Zero?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get past the Affair Partner Continually Sending Me Photos and Descriptive Dialog?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When My Partner Is in Denial about His Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A Should a Wayward Spouse Be Allowed to Have Friends of the Opposite Gender?
Video icon Q&A How do I Heal?
Video icon Q&A Is He Just Not Interested in Me or Did He Magically Figure Out How to Treat a Woman?
Video icon Q&A When an Intrusive Thought Occurs, How Do I Know the Difference between Suppressing and Ignoring That Thought versus Not Giving It Any Airtime, Capturing It, and Redirecting My Thinking to Something Else?
Video icon Q&A Am I Being Closed Minded?
Video icon Q&A How Should I Deal With Characteristics That I Do Not Possess, Yet Seem to Have Been Sought after by My Spouse in the Affair Partners?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do to Protect My, and My Children’s, Heart?