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Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How to Survive Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 3872 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can I Help Him Heal and Yet Remain Open and Honest with Him about the Facts and Not What His Feelings about the Facts Are? 6/17/2021 Q&A What Is the Likelihood of a Betrayed Spouse Achieving Self-Actualization If They Stay with Their Unfaithful Spouse? 6/17/2021 Q&A How Do We Continue to Try and Get along without Ever Speaking about the Affair or Any Problems? 6/17/2021 Q&A Should I Keep Pushing Him to Talk and Give Me Answers? 6/16/2021 Q&A Can I Hope for a Better Future? 6/16/2021 Q&A What Are the Best Boundaries to Make When My Husband and I Are Having a Discussion about My Healing and He Starts to Get Really Angry? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I Navigate This Situation? 6/16/2021 Q&A Do You Think I Should Send the Letter That I Wrote to My Husband's Affair Partner? 6/16/2021 Q&A Could This Method of Coping and the Escalation Not Indicate a Sexual Addiction Even Though the Person Only Used Porn Casually? 6/16/2021 Q&A When Is the Right Time for Confrontation and How Do I Tell Him I Know about the Affair? 6/16/2021 Q&A Is It Unreasonable Of Me to Ask Him to Get Tested Now? 6/16/2021 Q&A Am I Hurting Us More by Not Letting Him Live at Home? 6/16/2021 Q&A What Resources Can I Give My Family for Supporting Me through This Time and Setting Healthy Boundaries? 6/16/2021 Q&A What Is the Best Response for My Husband? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I Help Him Understand That I Need to Know about All His Emotional Affairs? 6/16/2021 Q&A Did My Husband Have an Affair Because He Felt Unloved and Unappreciated In Our Marriage? 6/16/2021 Q&A Is Fantasy Sex a Betrayal? 6/16/2021 Q&A Should I Be Considering Any Restrictions on Her Access to Our Children If She Continues to Act Out? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I Get Over the Fact That My Wife Gave Her Affair Partner More Intense and Passionate Sex Than She Has Ever Given Me? 6/16/2021 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Be Doing to Leave an Opening for a Different Path? 6/16/2021 Q&A What Is the Divorce Rate beyond 5 Years after Recovery? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I Create a Safe Boundary for Myself While Showing Him Grace and Not Reject His Desire to Open up to Me and Reconnect? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I Find the Strength to Stay When It Means I Will Have to Be a Father to the Child of Her Betrayal? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I as the Betrayed Quit Hitting the Wrong Side of His Ambivalence? 6/16/2021 Q&A Are There Any Tips on How to Handle Someone Who Is Not Displaying Remorse, Is Full Of Anger and Pain, And Deeply Depressed? 6/16/2021 Q&A When Faced with Such a Painful Outcome as This, What Is a Spouse Able to Do Aside from Self-Care and Healing? 6/16/2021 Q&A How Do I Get past the Feeling That Our Marriage Is a Lie? 6/16/2021 Q&A Did He Only Quit Because He Got Caught? 6/16/2021 QQ&A Am I Wrong to Keep Demanding an Explanation about How the Affair Started Instead of Letting It Go? 6/16/2021 Q&A Why Would He Hire This Particular Escort? 6/16/2021 Q&A I Want Proof That His Affair Partner Has Been Contacted and Told That It Is 100% Over and He Will Never Contact Her Again. How Do I Go About This? 6/16/2021 Q&A Why Does My Husband, Who Says He Wants to Reconcile, Keep Bringing up All My Shortcomings? 6/16/2021 Q&A Are My Good Acts Just More Manipulation? 6/03/2021 Q&A How Can I Tell If the Problem Isn’t My Mate, but Me? 6/03/2021 Q&A How Can We Best Help Our Child Who Discovered the Affair? 6/03/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle My Complicated Family Situation? 6/03/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Spouse’s Defensiveness? 6/03/2021 Q&A What Do I Do in the Meantime? 5/25/2021 Q&A Is There Correlation to Infidelity and Attachment Styles? 5/25/2021 Q&A What Are the Old Behaviors That I Should Seek to Avoid? 5/25/2021 Q&A Does Experimental Same Sex Acting Out Require Special Layers or Nuances to the Recovery Process? 5/25/2021 Q&A Do We Try to Get Ahead of Public Backlash? 5/25/2021 Q&A How Do I Love Her through Her Controlling Issues While Still Maintaining My Sanity? 5/25/2021 Q&A What Do We Tell Our Teenage Children? 5/25/2021 Q&A Should I Receive a Disclosure Letter from My Spouses Work in Hope for Healing? 5/25/2021 Q&A How Can We Ever Build Trust? 5/12/2021 Q&A Should I Ask My Wife to Take Another Polygraph? 5/12/2021 Q&A Is It Wrong to Expect My Husband to Stop Contact with an Affair Partner Who Is Close to the Family and My Best Friend? 5/12/2021 Q&A Is It Too Soon to Begin Having Sex Again? 4/29/2021 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about a Post Infidelity Contract? 4/29/2021 Pages« first‹ previous…5678910111213…next ›last »
