All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 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Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 4912 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is it Time for Me to Give Up if She Doesn't Commit to Recovery? 11/30/2016 Q&A Is it OK for Me to Say No Even Though it May Make Things Worse? 11/30/2016 Q&A Have you Seen a Marriage Recover from this Kind of Affair? 11/30/2016 Q&A How Can I Not Feel Lonely While My Spouse Grieves the Loss of His Affair Partner? 11/30/2016 Q&A Can You Explain to me the Psychology Behind this Behavior? 11/30/2016 Q&A What Can You make of All This? 11/30/2016 Q&A What are Some Signs and Symptoms of a Marriage Healed After Infidelity? 11/30/2016 Q&A How do I Deal With 'His and Hers' Affairs? 11/30/2016 Q&A Why Can't He, and Will He Ever, Understand My Pain? 11/30/2016 Q&A What Concerns Should I Have at this Point in Our Recovery from His Affair? 11/30/2016 Q&A What is Protocol for a Couple in this Post Affair Scenario? 11/30/2016 Q&A Should I Inform My Children of their Mother's Affair? 11/30/2016 Q&A Can I Heal the Relationship With My Best Friend After Her Cheating With My Husband? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can We Get Past Our Difference of Opinion With Reconciliation and Forgiveness? 11/23/2016 Q&A Any Way to Encourage Progress in Our Recovery? 11/23/2016 Q&A How do We Combat the Marathoning? 11/23/2016 Q&A Where is the Line that Makes a Relationship an Affair? 11/23/2016 Q&A How do We Deal With Chronic Pain, Medication Addiction, and Affair Recovery? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Find the Truth From so Long Ago? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Handle Being Triggered by the Affair Partner? 11/23/2016 Q&A Upcoming Divorce, Holidays and Children - More Pretend Normal? 11/23/2016 Q&A How do We Explain My Wife's Affair to Our Daughter? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Combat My Bitterness Towards My Wife and Her Affair Partner? 11/23/2016 Q&A Any Advice for Us After a Huge Backslide? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Work Through Resentment and Commit Back to My Mate? 11/23/2016 Q&A Can a Sex Addict Simply Choose to Not Act Out? 11/23/2016 Q&A Can You Please Explain Marathoning? 11/23/2016 Q&A What Are Some Practical Steps or Books to Help With Fantasy Life? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Face the Triggers I Receive from His Workplace Reality? 11/23/2016 Q&A Could My Knowledge of their Affair Add to My Hopelessness? 11/23/2016 Q&A How do I Face this Ongoing Trauma While my Spouse 'Let's Go' of the Affair Partner? 11/23/2016 Q&A How is Recovery Possible After a 10 Year Affair? 11/23/2016 Q&A Can I Recover Without Fully Knowing About Her Affair? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Safely Break off Contact Between Our Kids and the Affair Partner? 11/23/2016 Q&A Since the Affair Story Still Hurts Him, Should We Let Sleeping Dogs Lie? 11/23/2016 Q&A How do I Deal With an Extremely Obstinate Unfaithful Spouse? 11/23/2016 Q&A How am I Supposed to be the Best Husband I Can be After She Cheated? 11/23/2016 Bad Advice for Hurt Spouses 11/16/2016 Q&A Could my Unfaithful Wife Be in the Neutral Stage? 11/02/2016 Q&A Is there Any Hope for Getting Over the Pain and Anger of Betrayal? 11/02/2016 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Feel Safe While I Can't Remember Details that He Wants? 11/02/2016 Q&A Can You Suggest Any Free Programs to Help My Spouse? 11/02/2016 Q&A Given the Length of Trickle Truth, Should I Retake the Harboring Hope Group? 11/02/2016 Q&A Are We Losing Our Vigilance in Recovery? 11/02/2016 Q&A What Rules Should We Follow During Our No Contact Separation? 11/02/2016 Q&A Should I Confront My Mate With the Evidence of His Relapse? 11/02/2016 Q&A Should I Just Let Him Divorce Me after His Affairs? 11/02/2016 Q&A Should I Demand My Mate Take a Polygraph? 11/02/2016 Q&A What Type of Affair Was This? 11/02/2016 Q&A How Can We Safely Have Intimacy While He Sustains From Sexual Addiction? 11/02/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…646566676869707172…next ›last »