For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A What Do I Do in the Meantime?
Video icon Q&A What Are the Old Behaviors That I Should Seek to Avoid?
Video icon Q&A Does Experimental Same Sex Acting Out Require Special Layers or Nuances to the Recovery Process?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Ever Build Trust?
Video icon Q&A Should I Ask My Wife to Take Another Polygraph?
Video icon Q&A How on Earth Do I Enforce Boundaries during This Time without Pushing Her Back to the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Decide What to Do?
Video icon Q&A What Advice Do You Have For Telling My Spouse That I Know About Their Affair and Who the Affair Partner Is?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get Him to See My Perspective?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible That I’ll Have a Change of Heart Some Time Down the Road?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Cast Down My Thoughts of Beating Up My Wife’s Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Should I Be Alarmed with This Feeling Of Disgust and Will It Ever Go Away?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know He's Really Choosing Me?
Video icon Q&A Is This Typical or Is My Husband Emotionally Immature?
Video icon Q&A How Should I Answer Him When He Says I Should Forgive Him like the Bible Says to Forgive?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Respect My Husband Again or Decide If I Really Want to Stay Knowing We May Never Be Fully Healed?
Video icon Q&A Is It Better to Ignore Him When He Is Trying to Reach Out and Connect or Should I Respond in Kind to Try to Maintain the Peace?
Video icon Q&A Why Should I Believe My Husband Is Really Committed to Me When He Would Go Out of His Way for the Affair Partner, but Not for Me?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Go Back to Normal Sexual Behavior with My Spouse When My Spouse Told Me the Affair Partner Was Better Than Me in Bed and Also Had a Bigger Male Anatomy?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Re-Engage with Family, Friends, And Normal Life?
Video icon Q&A Does Alcohol Really Play That Much of a Part in Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with His Inability to Talk about Our Marriage?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Navigate Such Extreme Triggers from Discovery?
Video icon Q&A How Could My Wife Be Having an Affair When We Were Trying to Get Pregnant?
Video icon Q&A It Seems My Husband Is More Worried About His Self-Image Than Actually Healing, What Do I Do?
Video icon Q&A Is He ‘Cured’ and Am I Now Safe?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Balance Guarding My Heart with Building Intimacy in EMS Online When My Mate Is Still Engaging His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Am I Being Manipulated Again or Does He Truly Feel This Way?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wasting My Time Hoping He Can Truly Change?
Video icon Q&A When Is It Appropriate to Tell Adult Children about Their Mother's Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle the Mixed Messages I'm Receiving from My Ex-fiancé?
Video icon Q&A Am I Expecting Too Much Too Soon, How Long Does It Take to Start to See That Coming Back?
Video icon Q&A Is There Anything I Can Do to Help Him Work through His Struggles - Which in Turn Will Help Our Marriage?
Video icon Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Productively Handle Contempt and Disgust?
Video icon Q&A Why Does My Wife Not See the Effort and Work It Takes for Me, as the Betrayed, to Stay in the Marriage?
Video icon Q&A What Am I Supposed to Do as the Hurt Spouse Trying to Heal from My Husband’s Hurtful Behavior While Now Navigating My Past?
Video icon Q&A What Does the Betrayed Spouse Do When the Betrayer Just Won’t End the Affair and Shows Signs of Limerence?
Video icon Q&A Am I Being Unrealistic for Wanting to Have a More Loving, Satisfying, Sex Life after Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A Is It Alright for Me Not to Confront My Husband about Breaching the Contract?
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Want to Indulge in Thoughts of the Other Women?
Video icon Q&A What Is My Husband's Addiction?
Video icon Q&A What Is She Ambivalent about If There Was No Emotional Attachment to the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Might Be a Better Way to Deal with My Pain?
Video icon Q&A What Steps Can I Take to Learn to Trust Again?
Video icon Q&A Is His Inability to Recall Details of the Affair Normal?
Video icon Q&A Is My Spouse's Attitude Preventing Limerence from Fading?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Shame over My Husband's Thoughts?
Video icon Q&A Can I Ever Feel Love Again for Her If I'm Feeling Trapped in This Marriage?
Video icon Q&A Why Does He Keep Reaching Out to Me If He Is Still in the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Should I Ask about All the Media and Locations They Shared?