For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

1216 Resources
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Video icon Q&A If There Is a Future for Our Marriage, Would You See the Journey to Be Any Different than Normal?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Create a Coherent Story If the Details from My Mate Are Always Changing?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Let Go of What Happened and Fully Re-Engage with My Mate?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle a New Betrayal Immediately after EMS Weekend?
Video icon Q&A Is It My Fault That They Did What They Did?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Cope with My Own Issues of Needing to Feel Understood by My Husband as the Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Discern If a Person Is Truly Remorseful and Changing When They Relapse into Blaming the Betrayed?
Video icon Q&A Is My Lack of Emotion Normal or Am I Experiencing Something Much Worse?
Video icon Q&A Why Does He Tell Me I Am the Only Girl and Will Be Faithful When He Continues to See Other Women?
Video icon Q&A Can You Further Explain How to Determine and Address What Could Have Led to My Husband’s Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Navigate My Sister Being the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Enjoyment of Porn?
Video icon Q&A What Kind of Affair Is This?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do, as the Betrayed, to Try and Get Closure?
Video icon Q&A Are My Boundaries for My Spouse Unreasonable?
Video icon Q&A How Can He Have No Feelings for the Affair Partner or Not Remember How He Expressed Feelings for Her?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel Suspicious or Am I Jumping to Conclusions?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Who Won’t Be Open with Me?
Video icon Q&A If He Was Having an Affair to Get Some Sort of Thrill or Feeling from That Person Why Did He Constantly Want My Attention Too?
Video icon Q&A Do You Think He Truly Meant What He Said While Also Calling Me Beautiful on a Regular Basis?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do If I Don’t Believe My Mate Has Been Completely Honest with Their Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A Am I Struggling Because I Still Feel Unsafe in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A What Can We Do Differently?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Move Forward When I’m Not Sure He Can Admit to Himself What His Demons Are?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Not Feel So Bad About My Own Body?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal With My Repulsion by the Idea of Sex Post Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A How Long Are You Suppose to Wait for Unfaithful to Take Responsibility and Have Empathy?
Video icon Q&A Should I Get Breast Implants to Please My Husband?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Marrying Someone While Choosing to Essentially Re-Marry Him?
Video icon Q&A Are My Expectations to High? What Should He Be Doing to Reinforce That Love and Value of Me?
Video icon Q&A What Are the Signs I Should Run and Not Bother Wasting My Time or Emotions on Trying to Make My Marriage Work?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Be Comfortable Being Intimate Again?
Video icon Q&A Can I Truly Trust a Polygraph?
Video icon Q&A Why Does My Mate Still Want Me to Obey Him after His Affair?
Video icon Q&A Could It Be Limerance When the Affair Partner Is an Old Flame?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle Knowing the ‘Who’ Matters More to Me than the ‘What’?
Video icon Q&A When Will the Constant Feeling That Another Betrayal Is Right around the Corner Fade?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do If My Spouse Works with Their Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Continue Supporting Her While Taking Care of My Heart and Mental Health?
Video icon Q&A Is It OK for the Wayward Spouse to Keep in Touch with Affair Partners from the past That Happened Years before Us?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move Forward Knowing That He Already Has The Mindset That This Could Happen Again?
Video icon Q&A How Could He Go from One Affair to Another?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get Over This Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Ever Get Over His Believing He Loved The Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A As a Betrayed Husband Is It Unrealistic to Want My Wife to Pursue Me Physically?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get past the Uncontrollable Fear of This Happening Again or That It Is Still Happening?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Continue in This Process When Only One of Us Is Committed?
Video icon Q&A How Much Harder Will Our Recovery Be in This Situation?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Put In the Effort Needed on My End for Intimacy without Getting the Same Failed Result?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Trust Him Again?