Q&A Why Does This Hurt Me? 8/17/2021
Q&A My Husband Is Still Pursuing His Affair Partner after 13 Months and Is Refusing Any Work. Is There Hope? 8/17/2021
Q&A How Do I Handle This Conflict between What He’s Saying and What He’s Doing? 8/17/2021
Q&A How Do I Deal With This When I Cannot Reasonably Ask Her to Quit Working nor Can I Check In Frequently to Make Sure It's Not Happening Again? 8/17/2021
Q&A How Do I Handle Other Counselor’s ‘Okaying’ My Husband’s Continuation of His Rock-Concert Gigs? 8/17/2021
Q&A Should I Tell the Affair Partner’s Wife about the Affair? 8/17/2021
Q&A Will I Ever Know If My Spouse Is No Longer Emotionally Attached to His Affair Partner? 8/17/2021
Q&A How Do Handle My Wife Having a Same-Sex Affair? 8/02/2021
Q&A How Do I Behave around My Family When My Sister Is the Affair Partner? 8/02/2021
Q&A How Can I Now Be the Bad Guy? 7/13/2021
Q&A Do You Advise Me to Have a Session with My Psychologist, Family, And Friends to Discuss the Things He Has Said About Me? 7/13/2021
Q&A Should I Share the Date I Have Set For Making a Decision with My Husband? 7/13/2021
Q&A Is Keeping Him from Moving Home Making Things Worse? 7/13/2021
Q&A How Do I Handle My Healing and My Husband? 7/13/2021
Q&A Why Did My Husband Have Such a Seemingly Lame Affair? 7/13/2021
Q&A Is Location-Sharing and Access to Phones Recommended? 7/13/2021
Q&A How Do I Deal With His Advice without Feeling He Is Criticizing Me? 7/13/2021
Q&A How Can I Stop the Feeling That I Constantly Need to Check on My Wayward Spouse for Safety? 7/13/2021
Q&A How Best Do I Ask for This Information So That He Understands the Level of Transparency I Need to Feel Safe? 7/13/2021
Q&A How Do I Deal With the Physical Distance between Me and My Husband during Recovery? 7/13/2021
Q&A My Husband Wants to Know Why I Haven't Heard from a Betrayed Woman Who Is Still Married to Her Wayward Spouse? 7/13/2021
Q&A Do I Sell My House with My Unfaithful Spouse in It? 7/13/2021
Q&A Do I Let Go of My Attachment to Her Now or Wait until Our Courses Are Complete? 7/13/2021
Q&A Do You Have Any Insights into My Wayward Spouse's Line of Thinking? 7/08/2021
Q&A Where Do I Go from Here When My Spouse Is Mostly Defensive and Blame Shifting? 7/08/2021
Q&A How Do I Reconcile with the Affair Partner Who Is My Sister? 7/08/2021
Q&A Is It Okay to Ask to the the 40 Cost Assignment from EMS Weekend Again? 7/08/2021
Q&A How Can I Pretend Normal Around Family When Even Thoughts of Them Are Triggering and Intrusive? 6/17/2021
Q&A How Can I Move Forward While Convinced That He Is Still Lying to Me? 6/17/2021
Q&A How Can I Help Him Heal and Yet Remain Open and Honest with Him about the Facts and Not What His Feelings about the Facts Are? 6/17/2021
Q&A Should I Keep Pushing Him to Talk and Give Me Answers? 6/16/2021
Q&A What Are the Best Boundaries to Make When My Husband and I Are Having a Discussion about My Healing and He Starts to Get Really Angry? 6/16/2021
Q&A Do You Think I Should Send the Letter That I Wrote to My Husband's Affair Partner? 6/16/2021
Q&A When Is the Right Time for Confrontation and How Do I Tell Him I Know about the Affair? 6/16/2021
Q&A Is It Unreasonable Of Me to Ask Him to Get Tested Now? 6/16/2021
Q&A How Do I Help Him Understand That I Need to Know about All His Emotional Affairs? 6/16/2021
Q&A Should I Be Considering Any Restrictions on Her Access to Our Children If She Continues to Act Out? 6/16/2021
Q&A How Do I Get Over the Fact That My Wife Gave Her Affair Partner More Intense and Passionate Sex Than She Has Ever Given Me? 6/16/2021
Q&A How Do I Create a Safe Boundary for Myself While Showing Him Grace and Not Reject His Desire to Open up to Me and Reconnect? 6/16/2021
Q&A How Do I Find the Strength to Stay When It Means I Will Have to Be a Father to the Child of Her Betrayal? 6/16/2021
Q&A How Do I as the Betrayed Quit Hitting the Wrong Side of His Ambivalence? 6/16/2021
Q&A Are There Any Tips on How to Handle Someone Who Is Not Displaying Remorse, Is Full Of Anger and Pain, And Deeply Depressed? 6/16/2021
Q&A When Faced with Such a Painful Outcome as This, What Is a Spouse Able to Do Aside from Self-Care and Healing? 6/16/2021
Q&A How Do I Get past the Feeling That Our Marriage Is a Lie? 6/16/2021
Q&A Did He Only Quit Because He Got Caught? 6/16/2021
QQ&A Am I Wrong to Keep Demanding an Explanation about How the Affair Started Instead of Letting It Go? 6/16/2021
Q&A Why Would He Hire This Particular Escort? 6/16/2021
Q&A I Want Proof That His Affair Partner Has Been Contacted and Told That It Is 100% Over and He Will Never Contact Her Again. How Do I Go About This? 6/16/2021
Q&A Why Does My Husband, Who Says He Wants to Reconcile, Keep Bringing up All My Shortcomings? 6/16/2021
Q&A How Can I Tell If the Problem Isn’t My Mate, but Me? 6/03/2021
