For the Unfaithful Spouse

Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse.

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Video icon Q&A Should the Wayward Spouse Contact the Affair Partner When an STD Has Been Diagnosed?
Video icon Q&A My Wife Is Considering a Revenge Affair. What Should I Do?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Move Forward When We Have Both Been Unfaithful?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Help My Betrayed Spouse Get past the Anger?
Video icon Q&A Why Do I, as the Wayward Spouse, Treat My Wife with Hateful and Cruel Comments When We Argue?
Video icon Q&A As the Wayward Spouse, How Can I Rebuild Trust with My Husband?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Respond to My Wife When She Assumes I Had an Emotional Relationship With a Coworker?
Video icon Q&A How Can These Two Programs Be Helpful in Such a Mess of a Situation?
Video icon Q&A Is Going No Contact with the Affair Partner Suggested or Discussed during Hope for Healing?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle Seeing My Affair Partner in Public?
Video icon Q&A How Can the Wayward Spouse Resolve the Guilt They Have about the Consequences They Caused for the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Betrayed Spouse with Her Anger and Resentment?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Let Go of the Intrusive Thoughts on My Actions?
Video icon Q&A Is There Any Way to Convince My Mate That I'm Not Emotionally Connected to My Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Can I, as the Wayward Spouse, Help My Wife to Come to Accept Her Reality?
Video icon Q&A I Am Trying to Be Safe for My Wife, but How Can I Feel Safe from Her?
Video icon Q&A Can I Truly Be the Changed Person I Feel I Am Now?
Video icon Q&A Has Sexual Imprinting Led to My Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate Wanting Me to Hate the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Long Does It Take for the Wayward Spouse to See Clearly?
Video icon Q&A Is Sending an Apology Letter the Right Thing to Do?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Understand That He Has Always Been Enough for Me?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Manage Recovery from Both My Affair My Mates Addiction?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move Forward in Forgiving Myself?
Video icon Q&A Should My Mate Be Cautious of the Comparison Questions She Is Asking?
Video icon Q&A What Does Transparency, Accountability, and External Controls Look like in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A When Do I Know That It’s Time for Me to Leave?
Video icon Q&A Who Am I to Get Triggered When She's the One Who Was Betrayed?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Create Safety During Military Deployment?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Fix the Problem of Trickle Truth?
Video icon Q&A Is My Childhood Trauma Influencing My Life?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Gain a Better Perspective on What I've Done?
Video icon Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Rebuilding My Self-Image?
Video icon Q&A (HH) What Is Your Opinion on Attending My Mates Therapy Sessions?
Video icon Q&A Why Does My Behavior Reflect That I've Learned Nothing?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible to Reach Ground Zero If My Spouse Doesn’t Believe That I’ve Told Him Everything?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal, Recover, and Prevent Relapse?
Video icon Q&A Will I Ever Fully Understand My Mate's Pain?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Show My Wife I Get It?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Convince My Spouse That I've Disclosed All of the Details?
Video icon Q&A Why Am I Being Pulled so Strongly to Act Out When I’m Doing All This Recovery Work?
Video icon Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Enjoy My Wife like a Normal Man?
Video icon Q&A Am I Using the Affair Partners Choices as a Cop-Out?
Video icon Q&A Would Taking the Hope for Healing Course Be like Ripping off Old Scabs?
Video icon Q&A Should I Give My Mate Information They Specifically Asked Me Not to Share?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Communicate to My Spouse That I Am Not Excusing My Affair Partner’s Part in the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Make It Clear That I'm Choosing by Mate over the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Is It Normal to Feel That Ending the Marriage May Be a Better Option?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Communicate That I'm Choosing My Mate?
Video icon Q&A If I Don't Want to Save the Marriage, Does That Mean I Don't Have Remorse?