For the Unfaithful Spouse

Recovery for the unfaithful spouse requires much more humility and personal responsibility than that of the betrayed spouse. These articles are specifically to navigate recovery for the unfaithful spouse.

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Video icon Q&A Am I Hurting My Mates Recovery Process?
Video icon Q&A Is It Okay for the Wayward Spouse to Journal about the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Are Healthy Ways for the Wayward to Grieve Losing the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Ensure That This Doesn't Change Me into a Miserable Person?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Convince My Wife I Love Her and Only Her?
Video icon Q&A How Can My Wife Become Disentangle from the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Show Empathy without Getting Defensive?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Recover from an Abusive Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Let Go of My Feelings for the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Show My Positive Change in Spite of Relapse?
Video icon Q&A What Steps Should I Take after Relapse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Why Am I Supposed to Accept the Label 'Unfaithful'?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Convince My Husband I Did Love Him and Still Do?
Video icon Q&A Is My Betrayed Wife's Behavior Normal?
Video icon Q&A What Does It Mean to Be a Safe Place for the Betrayed's Anger?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Overcome My Jealousy?
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Feel so Attacked When My Wife Brings up My past Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A Why Have I Chosen Destructive Relationships in the Past?
Video icon Q&A What If I Don’t Feel Guilty?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Betrayed Spouse Interrogating Me about Everyone of the Opposite Sex?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Regain Her Trust Again?
Video icon Q&A Why Can't I Stop Thinking about the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Process My Feelings for the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Will Feelings for the Affair Partner Ever Fade?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Do When the Betrayed Spouse Doesn’t Believe Your Story?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Heal When We Have Both Been Unfaithful?
Video icon Q&A Is It Necessary to Wait until I No Longer Have Feelings for the AP to Reconnect with My Wife?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Fix What I've Done?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Emotionally Detach from the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop These Behaviors?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Move Forward in Healing with the Fear That I May Remember More Information about My Affair?
Video icon Q&A Will My Desire for My Mate Return?
Video icon Q&A Am I Still Deluded?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Handle my Mate’s Questions about the Affair?
Video icon Q&A What Keeps My Betrayed Spouse from Acknowledging Her Lack of Safety in Our Relationship?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Prove to My Mate I'm Telling the Truth?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Accept How Long My Affair Lasted?
Video icon Q&A What Does It Look like for the Wayward Spouse to Help the Injured Spouse through Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Explain My Shame to My Mate?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Communicate That It Was Shame That Caused Me to Hide?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Mate with the Challenges of Intrusive Sexual Thoughts?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do to Better Understand My Betrayed Mate?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Communicate to My Wife That I Wasn't ‘Using’ Her during the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Convince My Wife That I Only Love Her?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Heal from My Lack of Empathy?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Show My Spouse That I Am Truly Trying to Regain Their Trust?
Video icon Q&A How Should I Respond to My Wife's Feelings about Saving the Marriage?
Video icon Q&A My Betrayed Husband Won't Believe Me. How Can We Reach Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A My Betrayed Spouse Wants Me to Contact the Affair Partner. What Should I Do?