Q&A How Do I Explain Disassociation and It’s Part in the Affair? 1/26/2023
Q&A How Do I Help My Husband Understand the Effects of Trauma While Also Letting Him See That It Is Not an Excuse for My Actions? 1/11/2023
Q&A How Do I Explain That My Childhood Trauma Triggered My Actions and Doesn’t Remove My Accountability Even If I Did Disassociate? 1/11/2023
Q&A What Is a Realistic Timeline for My Own Recovery with C-PTSD and Childhood Trauma and Being Able to Answer Every Specifically Detailed ‘Why'? 1/11/2023
Q&A How Do I Get over All of the Pain That I Have Caused? 12/06/2022
Q&A Are My Kids Really ‘Love Children’ from My Affairs? 10/13/2022
Q&A How Can the Unfaithful Work through the Deception Regarding the Infidelity? 10/13/2022
Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Believe I’m Not Manipulating Him? 10/13/2022
Q&A Will I Be Able to Find My Wife Sexually Attractive Again or Have I Broken My Brain? 10/13/2022
Q&A How Can an Unfaithful Spouse Develop Emotional Intelligence? 9/13/2022
Q&A Is It Strange for the Unfaithful to Have Depression? 8/03/2022
Q&A How Do I Keep My Boundaries Strong in a Place of Leadership? 7/07/2022
Q&A Am I Just Playing the Victim to Reduce My Guilt? 7/01/2022
Q&A How Do I Respond to the Betrayed’s Triggers When It’s Affecting My Mental Health Now? 6/14/2022
Q&A Why Can’t I Give My Spouse Full Disclosure? 4/20/2022
Q&A What Is the Best Way to Discuss the Questions That Most Wayward Spouses Get from the Betrayed? 4/20/2022
Q&A How Do We Handle Disclosure When My Infidelity Was So Long Ago and I Can’t Remember All the Details? 4/06/2022
Q&A How Should I as a Wayward Spouse Approach My Spouse’s Continual Desire for Reassurance? 3/10/2022
Q&A How Do I Emotionally Connect with Someone Who Treats Me This Way? 3/10/2022
Q&A How Long Does It Take for Desire for My Mate to Return after Severing Ties with My Affair Partners? 3/10/2022
Q&A How Long Should I Accept and Validate His Exaggerated Reactions as a Result of My Previously Reckless Behaviors? 2/17/2022
Q&A What Do We Do When We Both Cheated, If My Betrayal Was ‘Worse’ than His? 1/18/2022
Q&A Will the Betrayed’s Irritability Ever Go Away? 1/18/2022
Q&A What Do I Do When the Betrayed Spouse Shuts Me Out and Doesn’t Want to Talk about His Pain, Unless Forced? 1/18/2022
Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand the Importance of Knowing the ‘Why’ and Also How to Can I Help Him See That It’s Not an Excuse or Blaming Anything? 12/17/2021
Q&A How Do I Help My Betrayed Wife with Her Depression That Has Escalated Dramatically since Discovery? 11/04/2021
Q&A Should I Continue EMS Online on My Own? 10/07/2021
Q&A Will My Husband Love Me Again, the Way He Used To? 7/08/2021
Q&A When My Mate Floods, Why Do I Get Distressed In Turn? 7/08/2021
Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Calm After Disclosing the Truth? 6/17/2021
Q&A Are My Good Acts Just More Manipulation? 6/03/2021
Q&A How Do I Love Her through Her Controlling Issues While Still Maintaining My Sanity? 5/25/2021
Q&A What Leads Me to Objectifying Women? 4/22/2021
Q&A Should I Continue In My Own Healing In the Hopes She Will Rejoin? 4/13/2021
Q&A What Else Can I Do, Other Than Be Honest and Give Her Space? 4/13/2021
Q&A What Do You Do If You Have a Trigger and It Makes You Think of a New Detail? 3/25/2021
Q&A As the Wayward Spouse Will I Ever Fall Back in Love with My Husband? 3/09/2021
Q&A What More Can I Do to Become Safe for Her and Rebuild Our Relationship? 2/11/2021
Q&A What Else Can I Do to Prevent a Divorce or Retaliatory Affair? 1/14/2021
Q&A What Can the Wayward Spouse Do to Help the Betrayed Find Acceptance and Healing? 12/09/2020
Q&A How Does the Wayward Spouse Deal with the In-Then-Out Behavior of Their Spouse? 11/24/2020
Q&A How Do I Proceed with Recovery Work When the Betrayed Doesn't Want to Get Help? 11/24/2020
Q&A Will It Ever Be Possible to Be Friends with My Affair Partner Again? 11/18/2020
Q&A How Do I Remember Details of the Affair That I Seem to have Repressed? 11/12/2020
Q&A What Should I Do as the Wayward Spouse When My Spouse Has a Breakdown? 11/12/2020
Q&A To Save My Marriage, Do I Have to Agree with Him? 10/29/2020
Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Move past the Offense of My Betrayal and into Healing? 10/22/2020
Q&A What Do I Do as the Wayward Spouse When the Truth and Love Exercise Goes Wrong? 10/22/2020
Q&A How Does One Determine What Not to Share with Their Spouse While Remaining Open and Honest? 10/22/2020
Q&A How Can These Memories Be Recovered? 9/03/2020
