Handling Discovery We call it “D-day” for a reason. These articles will help you understand the process of disclosure and how to keep the process safe. Must Reads more less The Problem with Forgiveness Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 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Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Power of Small Groups 552 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Will It Hurt Our Recovery If I Never Receive Full Disclosure? 3/08/2017 Q&A What Do I Do Now? He's Still a Liar and Our Marriage Is a Fake. 2/28/2017 Q&A How Do I Move Forward Feeling That I Don't Have the Truth? 2/15/2017 Q&A Where do I go from Here? I'm Hesitant to Attend EMS Weekend. 2/08/2017 Q&A Can I Speak to the Affair Partner in this Situation? 2/08/2017 Q&A How do I Move Past Knowing that My Wife Shared our Marital Bed with Another Man and he Shared His with Her? 2/08/2017 Q&A How do I Move Past the Fact that I May Not Have Full Disclosure? 2/08/2017 Q&A Is it my Fear or my Gut Causing me to Not Believe Him? 1/11/2017 Q&A How can the Betrayed Cope with the Continual Lying? 1/11/2017 Q&A If I Don't Believe I Have the Truth about the Affair, is there any Hope? 1/11/2017 Q&A How do I Get my Spouse to Understand my Need for Full Disclosure? The Affair is Ongoing. 12/20/2016 Q&A What are the Options Available Without Full Disclosure? 12/16/2016 Q&A In this Scenario, Should we Inform Our Adult Children of His Affairs? 11/30/2016 Q&A How Can I Find the Truth From so Long Ago? 11/23/2016 Q&A Can You Please Explain Marathoning? 11/23/2016 Q&A Could My Knowledge of their Affair Add to My Hopelessness? 11/23/2016 Q&A Can I Recover Without Fully Knowing About Her Affair? 11/23/2016 Q&A Since the Affair Story Still Hurts Him, Should We Let Sleeping Dogs Lie? 11/23/2016 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Feel Safe While I Can't Remember Details that He Wants? 11/02/2016 Q&A Should I Confront My Mate With the Evidence of His Relapse? 11/02/2016 Q&A Should I Demand My Mate Take a Polygraph? 11/02/2016 Q&A Why Does He Continually Want Her and Not Me? 11/02/2016 Q&A Why Would He Make a Decision to do This? 10/24/2016 Q&A Is it Normal to Relive the Days During the Affair to Rewrite History? 10/24/2016 Q&A Can There be no Feelings After an 8 Year Affair? 10/18/2016 Q&A How Can I Heal From the Affair in the Midst of Ongoing Trauma? 10/18/2016 Q&A How and When do I Process All the Information of the Affairs? 9/28/2016 Q&A After More Trickle Truth, How do I Handle the Fear of More Information? 9/28/2016 Q&A What does Full Disclosure of an Affair Look Like Practically? 9/28/2016 Q&A What if I Need to go Through All the Material I Collected from My Mate's Infidelity? 9/22/2016 Q&A My Husband Insists We Move Forward Without Discussing the Affair. Is it Possible? 9/22/2016 Q&A Is God Not Opening the Right Door or is My Mate Not Walking Through? 9/14/2016 Q&A Why Did They Do Something We Can't Do Together? 9/14/2016 Q&A How Do I Answer the Questions I Don't Remember? 9/14/2016 Q&A How Do I Process All This Information About the Affairs? 9/14/2016 Q&A Is it Possible to Move Past My Spouse Having an Affair on Our Anniversary? 9/07/2016 Q&A Why Does My Mate's Disclosure Not Make Sense? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate to Be Tested for STD's? 8/24/2016 Q&A Is it My Mate or the Affair Partner Lying? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Can I Settle These Questions in My Mind? 8/24/2016 Q&A How Do I Get Him to Give me Full Disclosure? 8/09/2016 Q&A What are Reasonable Expectations for Knowing the 'Why'? 8/03/2016 Q&A Is a Deeper Understanding Necessary for Truly Forgiving? 8/03/2016 Q&A With this Level of Drip Feeding Truth, Will I Regain Feelings for My Spouse? 8/03/2016 Q&A Should I Hear My Mate's Feelings for the Affair Partner 8/03/2016 Q&A Should I Disclose the Additional Affair Details I Discovered? 8/03/2016 Q&A How Do We Prepare for Vacation Now? 7/13/2016 Q&A Does He Only Think of Her When I Bring it Up? 7/13/2016 Q&A Why Do I Want to Know? 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