Handling Discovery We call it “D-day” for a reason. These articles will help you understand the process of disclosure and how to keep the process safe. Must Reads more less Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Power of Small Groups How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened The Problem with Forgiveness Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How to Survive Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 552 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Who Can I Talk to? 9/22/2015 Q&A Is This a Deal Breaker? 9/22/2015 Q&A What are the Right Questions? 9/01/2015 Q&A What can I do to Get My Spouse to Give us More Time? 8/25/2015 Q&A Should I Run Away? 8/25/2015 Q&A How do I Deal with this Horrific Truth? 8/25/2015 Q&A Do you Ever Recommend Separating? 8/18/2015 Q&A Where do I Start After Lying for so Long? 8/18/2015 Q&A At what Point do I Move on? 8/11/2015 Q&A How Much do I Need to Know? 8/11/2015 Q&A What Affects do Polygraphs have on Recovery? 7/31/2015 Q&A How do I Come to Terms with what they Did? 7/31/2015 Q&A Should I Secretly Install Spyware on my Spouse's Phone? 7/31/2015 The Ashley Madison Hack - Surviving Discovery 7/29/2015 Q&A Will I Ever Believe an Agreement Again? 7/28/2015 Q&A Why Does my Mindset Change from Morning to Night? 7/28/2015 Q&A Is this what PTSD Looks Like? 7/28/2015 Q&A Am I Being Compared to the Affair Partner? 7/20/2015 Q&A What do you Suggest I do Now? 7/07/2015 Q&A Do I Have Full Disclosure? 6/26/2015 Q&A What are the Issues Related to Being a F.O.B.A.D.? 6/23/2015 Q&A Should I be Leading our Recovery? 6/23/2015 Q&A What Boundaries are Needed to Keep my Family Safe? 6/09/2015 Q&A How Risky is a F.O.B.A.D.? 6/09/2015 Q&A How Does Trickle Truth Affect my Recovery Timeline? 6/02/2015 Q&A How can I be Certain my Spouse has Disclosed Everything? 6/02/2015 Q&A Why is my Husband Resisting Change? 6/02/2015 Q&A How do You Know When You Have Worked Through the Pain? 6/02/2015 Q&A How Much Can be Shared About the Affair Sex? 5/12/2015 Q&A Should I Publicly Expose my Spouse's Affair Partner? 5/12/2015 Q&A Why do They Continue to Lie? 5/12/2015 Q&A Can Our Marriage Begin Again? 5/04/2015 Q&A How Can I Deal with the Affair Partner Having Been in my House? 4/21/2015 Q&A Does Giving my Wife Full Disclosure in Therapy Make me Less of a Man? 4/21/2015 Q&A How can I Gain Perspective of an Addict's Mind? 4/15/2015 Q&A My Husband's AP May be Pregnant with his Child. What do I do? 4/15/2015 Q&A What do I do With a New Discovery About my Husband's Behavior? 4/15/2015 Q&A Am I Overreacting to Setbacks, and is it Too Soon to Move Home? 4/15/2015 Q&A Is it Normal for a Betrayed Spouse to have 180 Degree Turnaround? 4/15/2015 Q&A What are Your Views on the Affair Partner? 3/31/2015 Q&A Is it Normal to Struggle with Liking my Mate? 3/31/2015 Q&A How Can I Stop This Obsession? 3/31/2015 Q&A How do I Know my Husband's True Feelings? 3/20/2015 Q&A Should I Give up on my Dishonest Husband? 3/20/2015 Q&A How Can I Deal With my Rage? 3/20/2015 Q&A Am I Someone Who Can't Recover from This? 3/20/2015 Q&A Would more Detail Help me Heal? 3/20/2015 Q&A Does my Spouse Need Therapy or Divorce? 3/20/2015 Q&A Should I Retake Harboring Hope Since I've Discovered More Information? 3/20/2015 Q&A Is it Possible that my Mate has no Feelings for the AP Anymore? 3/16/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…456789101112next ›last »