Q&A How Can We Reconnect if I Don’t Know What Happened? 7/10/2024
Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much Control or Is the Wayward Spouse Being Unreasonable With a Lack of Boundaries? 7/10/2024
Q&A What Should We Look for in a Therapist to Ensure They Can Provide the Specialized Support Needed for Infidelity Recovery? 7/10/2024
Q&A How Do I Reconnect Intimately With My Betrayed Husband Now Knowing That He Is Dealing with His Own Temptations? 6/19/2024
Q&A What Is the Best Way to Build Trust Around My Husband’s Actions and My Triggers? 6/13/2024
Q&A Is It Okay for the Unfaithful to Masturbate While I, the Betrayed, Can’t Be Intimate Right Now Because of Lack of Emotional Connection and a Lot of Hurt? 6/13/2024
Q&A Could You Give a Tangible Example of the Statement, ‘My Mate Is Never My Problem. My Mate Only Reveals the Problem in Me’? 5/28/2024
Q&A How Is It Helpful to Label Someone for the Rest of Their Life When They Have Changed Directions? 5/14/2024
Q&A How Do You Walk Your Heart Through Acceptance? 5/07/2024
Q&A How Do I Address Her Readiness to Engage With Someone So Despicable Versus Her Resistance to Reconnect Intimately With Me? 5/07/2024
Q&A Every Time I Start to Feel Better, My Unfaithful Spouse Stops Putting in as Much Effort. How Can I Feel Safe When This Happens? 4/25/2024
Q&A How Do You Stop Thinking About and Forgive The Affair Partner? 4/25/2024
Q&A How Do I Do Everything Right at Every Moment for My Wife? 4/25/2024
Q&A How Do We Know if Our Cheating Spouse Is a Sex Addict, Has a Personality Disorder, or if It Is Something Else? 4/25/2024
Q&A How Do You Move Past Regret Into Acceptance? 4/03/2024
Q&A How Can I Be More Help to My Wayward Spouse Like He Has Been for Me? 4/03/2024
Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Feel Safe When She Is Triggered? 2/28/2024
Q&A What Does Making Restitution Look Like in a Marriage after an Affair? 1/30/2024
Q&A Is It Ok for My Husband to Meet With His Affair Partner? 1/09/2024
Q&A Can You Clarify What It Looks Like for Someone to Go into the Pre-contemplative and Contemplative Stage after a Relapse? 1/09/2024
Q&A What Traits Should We Look For in an Accountability Partner? 11/28/2023
Q&A Can You Address Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse? 10/23/2023
Q&A How Do I Get My Conflict-Avoidant Spouse to Do Anything? 9/29/2023
Q&A What Would Be Best for His Healing and Our Reconciliation? 8/15/2023
Q&A Are the Boundaries My Mate Has Placed on Our Conversations a Red Flag in Recovery? 8/15/2023
Q&A What Is the Best Way to Acknowledge the Work My Husband Is Doing Without Giving Him Too Much Praise? 6/16/2023
Q&A I Understand the Importance of Not Being Defensive about the Infidelity or Betrayal, but Does That Extend into Every Aspect of Our Lives? 6/16/2023
Q&A How Do I Handle My Betrayal When the Affair Partner Is So Close with My Husband’s Family? 6/16/2023
Q&A Am I Wrong to Still Be in This Much Pain? 5/19/2023
Q&A I’m Losing Compassion for My Mate. What Can I Do? 5/02/2023
Q&A How Do I Get past the Shame and Hurt? 5/02/2023
Q&A How Do You Recommend I Write My Closure Letter to the Affair Partner? 4/20/2023
Q&A Is It Necessary for Him to Be Proactive or Should I Be Happy He’s Doing What I Ask of Him? 4/12/2023
Q&A What Is the Best Way for Us to Utilize EMS Online since We Have Both Been Unfaithful? 4/12/2023
Q&A How Do I Cope with My Own Issues of Needing to Feel Understood by My Husband as the Wayward Spouse? 4/12/2023
Q&A How Do You Discern If a Person Is Truly Remorseful and Changing When They Relapse into Blaming the Betrayed? 4/12/2023
Q&A How Do I Handle My Spouse’s Siblings? 3/17/2023
Q&A Do We Have a Chance at Recovery If He Is Unable to Understand How Trauma Can Impact Me? 3/17/2023
Q&A How Do Social Engagement and Our Nervous Systems Work Together? 3/02/2023
Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate That I’m Not Talking to the Affair Partner? 3/02/2023
Q&A What Action Do You Recommend If My Mates Behavior Doesn’t Change? 3/02/2023
Q&A How Do We Handle Pregnancy So Close to Discovery? 2/17/2023
Q&A How Do I Explain Disassociation and It’s Part in the Affair? 1/26/2023
Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate Weaponizing Information That I’m Sharing with Them? 1/11/2023
Q&A Is It Productive to Healing and Reconciliation for the Unfaithful to Withhold Sex? 12/06/2022
Q&A How Can We Get Anywhere If a Calm Conversation Can’t Happen about His Recovery or Betrayals? 12/06/2022
Q&A Why Would You Have a Group of People Trying to Recover from Infidelity Being Led by a Single Female Who Is Divorced? 12/06/2022
Q&A Any Advice on How, When & Where It’s Best to Share Our Story? 11/03/2022
Q&A How Can the Unfaithful Work through the Deception Regarding the Infidelity? 10/13/2022
Q&A What Kind of Professional Help Should I Seek? 10/13/2022
