Why They Did It

The lingering question that haunts almost everyone recovering from infidelity: Why? The unfaithful spouse may not know why just yet, but use these articles to gain insight and, eventually, freedom from the uncertainty.

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Video icon Q&A Is a Deeper Understanding Necessary for Truly Forgiving?
Video icon Q&A Is Cheating Only Possible When He's Drunk?
Video icon Q&A How Did the Conversations Transition?
Video icon Q&A Do Some Only Cheat While Drunk?
Video icon Q&A How do We Figure Out the Justifications?
Video icon Q&A Why did My Best Friend and Spouse Betray Me Together?
Video icon Q&A Do We Talk About the Affair or Marriage?
Video icon Q&A Is There Peace in Saving it When There is Nothing Sacred?
Video icon Q&A Isn't this Behavior a Red Flag for the Future?
Video icon Q&A How do I Stop Comparing Myself to the AP?
Video icon Q&A Can There be Repentance While in an Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Not Feel Like Plan B?
Video icon Q&A Should the Unfaithful's Spouse's Story Make Sense?
Video icon Q&A Any Noticeable Links for the Unfaithful?
Video icon Q&A What's the Darkness Like?
Audio icon Q&A How Did He Cheat With Someone He Hates?
Audio icon Q&A Why Doesn't He Talk About Previous Relationships?
Video icon Q&A Am I Addicted to Limerance?
Video icon Q&A Should I Stop Trying to Understand?
Audio icon Q&A Should My Mate and I Agree on Moral Values?
Audio icon Q&A (HH) How Important is it to Know if it's Sex Addiction?
Video icon Q&A Can You Share More About Your Daughter's Past, and How Can Professionals Be Unfaithful?
Video icon Q&A How Can I 'Want' to Stay Away From Someone I Love?
Video icon Q&A How Prevalent is Narcissism Among the Unfaithful?
Audio icon Q&A (HH) Can I and Should I Believe Him?
Audio icon Q&A (HH) What Feelings Do the Unfaithful Experience?
Video icon Q&A Is it Normal for Me to be Accused of Guilt?
Video icon Q&A How Can They Say They Won't do it Again if They Don't Even Know the Why?
Video icon Q&A Am I Reaping What I Sowed Many Years Ago?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Simplify our Complicated Idea of Love?
Video icon Q&A What Kind of Affair Was it? Does it Matter?
Video icon Q&A Is She Addicted to a Narcissist?
Audio icon Q&A Can You Elaborate on Sex Addicts and Their Emotional Immaturity?
Audio icon Q&A Is it Possible to Heal All of This Alone?
Audio icon Q&A Which Affair Types Are Most Devastating?
Audio icon Q&A I Don't Know Whether to Stay or Go
Video icon Q&A What Are Your Thoughts About Our Current State of Healing?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Forgive When it Wasn't a Mistake?
Video icon Q&A How Can My Mate Find Relevancy With the 'Why' Chapter?
Video icon Q&A Did She Really Betray Her True Nature?
Video icon Q&A Was This Authority Rape?
Video icon Q&A Is It Because Of An Addiction Or Compulsion?
Video icon Q&A What Made Him Do This, Narcissism Or Addiction?
Video icon Q&A Did My ADHD Create Vulnerability for My Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Why Even Justify This?
Video icon Q&A Betrayal Begins With You?
Video icon Q&A Are My Questions Unfair?
Video icon Q&A Normal People do Not do This!
Video icon Q&A Why His Ex?
Video icon Q&A I Love Her, Why Did I Cheat on Her?