Why They Did It

The lingering question that haunts almost everyone recovering from infidelity: Why? The unfaithful spouse may not know why just yet, but use these articles to gain insight and, eventually, freedom from the uncertainty.

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Video icon Q&A Why Did My Mate Take So Many Photos of the Affair Partners?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move Forward If My Mate Won't Admit What Happened?
Video icon Q&A Could These Be Contributing Factors to My Husband's Acting Out?
Video icon Q&A Why Can't My Husband Face That This Was an Affair?
Video icon Q&A Why Did My Mate Choose to Stay Committed to the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Often Do the Betrayed End up Having Revenge Affairs?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible That My Spouse Never Blamed Me for Their Actions?
Video icon Q&A Is This Relationship worth Keeping?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Discern What Is True in All of This?
Video icon Q&A Is Anxiety a Valid Reason to Leave a Marriage?
Video icon Q&A Why Is the Wayward Spouse Continuing to Justify Their Actions?
Video icon Q&A Is an Obsession with Beauty Part of a Deeper Problem?
Video icon Q&A How Much Blame Can We Assign to the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Believe That My Mate Really Loved Me during Their Affair?
Video icon Q&A Did My Trust Contribute to the Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A Why Is the Wayward Spouse Questioning My Fidelity?
Video icon Q&A Is My Spouse a Good Person in Spite of the Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Having Trouble Facing This?
Video icon Q&A Why Does My Mate Say He Can't Remember Details of the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Why Is the 'Why' Often Never Fully Discovered?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Husbands Affairs?
Video icon Q&A How Does Depression Affect Infidelity and Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Was My Mate Committed to Me?
Video icon Q&A Is Understanding the 'Why' Important for Healing?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What I'm Dealing With?
Video icon Q&A Why Is Unprotected Sex within an Affair so Alluring?
Video icon Q&A Should I Disclose My Revenge Affair to My Mate?
Video icon Q&A How Does Alcohol Addiction Affect Recovery?
Video icon Q&A Is There Hope for Recovery in This Type of Situation?
Video icon Q&A Why Did the Affair Partner Try to Tear Our Family Apart?
Video icon Q&A Do You Have Advice for Handling Addiction along with Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A Why Won't My Mate See the Affair for What It Was?
Video icon Q&A Was My Husband in Love with His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Explain My Shame to My Mate?
Video icon Q&A Can You Further Explain Compartmentalization?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Communicate That It Was Shame That Caused Me to Hide?
Video icon Q&A Did My Husband Love Me While He Was Being Unfaithful to Me?
Video icon Q&A Are There Differences in Love of Spouse in Marriage and Love of the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Unfaithful Wife Figure out Why She Had the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Does My Mate 'Get It' or Is He Justifying His Actions?
Video icon Q&A Can Our Marriage Survive If My Husband Never Sees the Affair for What It Was?
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Want to Know More?
Video icon Q&A Will My Husband Ever Be Able to Self-Regulate His Behavior?
Video icon Q&A Why Did My Spouse Leave His Wedding Band on While He Was with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How I Can Get past My Husband's Lack of Seeing the Affair Partner for Who She Is?
Video icon Q&A How I Can Get past My Husband's Lack of Seeing the Affair Partner for Who She Is?
Video icon Q&A Why Would My Mate Embellish the Story of Their Affair?
Video icon Q&A Can Our Marriage Survive If My Husband Never Sees the Affair for What It Was?
Video icon Q&A What Is an Exit Affair?
Video icon Q&A Who's Responsible?