Why They Did It

The lingering question that haunts almost everyone recovering from infidelity: Why? The unfaithful spouse may not know why just yet, but use these articles to gain insight and, eventually, freedom from the uncertainty.

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Video icon Q&A How can I Feel Safe when my Mate's Affair was with their Ex?
Video icon Q&A Why did he Marry me when he was with her?
Video icon Q&A Why Wouldn't he End it?
Video icon Q&A I Want him to Want me... Will the Feelings Return?
Video icon Q&A Is it More Difficult for Men to Recover from Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A Can I Survive my Husband's Limerance?
Video icon Q&A Why Doesn't he Want it?
Video icon Q&A Is this because of his Father?
Audio icon Q&A How can I Accept and Forgive when I Don't Understand?
Video icon Q&A Would it Help my Mate to Understand my Rationalizations?
Video icon Q&A How can I Compete with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Why Doesn't he Express his Love?
Video icon Q&A Should I Just Divorce and Leave Him?
Video icon Q&A Does Chronic Pain Increase Vulnerability to Have an Affair?
Audio icon Q&A Does Chronic Pain Contribute to Affairs?
Audio icon Q&A Was it a Desire to be Desired?
Video icon Q&A They had to Know the Affair Would Devastate me, Right?
Video icon Q&A What Effects do Antidepressants Have on Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A Is it Possible to be Mean to Someone you Love?
Video icon Q&A How can I Regain Self-Esteem?
Video icon Q&A What are the Issues Related to Being a F.O.B.A.D.?
Video icon Q&A What Boundaries are Needed to Keep my Family Safe?
Video icon Q&A How can I Manage my Anger in a Healthy Way?
Video icon Q&A (HFH) Rick, What was Your Personal Experience With Relapse?
Video icon Q&A What is Going Through His Mind?
Audio icon Q&A How do I Know my Husband's True Feelings?
Audio icon Q&A How Can I Come to Grips that my Husband Thought he was In Love With Someone Else?
Audio icon Q&A Is my Spouse a Sex Addict?
Audio icon Q&A Can Women Compartmentalize as Men do?
Video icon Q&A How do I Get to the Truth?
Audio icon Q&A How Do I Get Past the AP Being in my House?!
Video icon Q&A Can a Man Be in Love With Two Women at the Same Time?
Video icon Q&A Why Doesn't my Husband Understand the Damage he is Causing?
Audio icon Q&A My Husband was Unfaithful for 10 Years. How can he Love me?
Audio icon Q&A How do I Deal With my Anger and Emotions?
Video icon Q&A When will my Husband Understand his Feelings so that I can Feel Safe?
Audio icon Q&A Am I Over the Top for Feeling this Way?
Audio icon Q&A If my Husband Affaired down, did his Affair Partner?
Audio icon Q&A Limerance and Male Compartmentalization
Audio icon Q&A Why is the Unfaithful Blessed While the Betrayed Loses it All?
Audio icon Q&A How do I Accept This as my Life?
Audio icon Q&A How can a Betrayed Spouse Become Unfaithful?