All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Problem with Forgiveness Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? 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Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 4915 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Long Is Too Long for Grieving? 9/02/2020 Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Spouse to Comfort the Wayward Spouse? 8/27/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with This New Information That I Apparently Am Incompatible with Her Now? 8/27/2020 Q&A Am I Overreacting or Is My Husband Not Taking Responsibility? 8/27/2020 Q&A If Our Marriage Was So Wonderful, Why Did He Have an Affair? 8/27/2020 Q&A Should We Tell Our Friends? 8/27/2020 Q&A How Can I Believe My Spouse Has Broken off the Affair? 8/27/2020 Q&A Is There Therapy for an Attachment Disorder and If So What Is It? 8/27/2020 Q&A Is It Possible to Feel No Shame or Guilt? 8/27/2020 Q&A My Husband Became a Bitter Person, What Should I Do? 8/27/2020 Q&A What Is a Real Trigger? 8/20/2020 Q&A Is My Husband's Behavior Abusive? 8/18/2020 Q&A Would a Polygraph Test Benefit Us? 8/18/2020 Q&A Is My Spouse Telling the Truth? 8/18/2020 Q&A Why Do I Have to Work for Truth When I Was Not the One That Was Unfaithful? 8/18/2020 Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask for Details? 8/18/2020 Q&A How Can I Best Support My Spouse When They're Having a Difficult Day? 8/18/2020 Q&A How Am I Supposed to Address This Barrier More Than I Already Have? 8/18/2020 Q&A Why I Am the One That Needs Reassurance and Not My Wayward Spouse? 8/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Reengage and Begin Moving Forward Again? 8/18/2020 Q&A Am I Crazy to Even Think There Is a Chance for Us? 8/13/2020 Q&A Is He Telling the Truth or Gaslighting Me? 8/13/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When the Spouse of My Husband's Affair Partner Attempts to Contact Me? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Wayward Wife's Friendships? 8/13/2020 Q&A Should I Just Ask Him to Move Out and Focus on Myself? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Do Handle How My Wife Is Acting? 8/13/2020 Q&A Why Do We Sometimes Ask the Same Questions Repeatedly? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Could Childhood Sexual Abuse Lead My Husband to Have an Affair? 8/13/2020 Q&A What Is It I Should Do to Heal? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Can He Be So Delusional and Casual about This Life Altering Situation? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Can I Make Him Understand That Porn Is Also Infidelity? 8/13/2020 Q&A Is This Type of Acting Out Not Part of What We Call a Mid-life Crisis? 8/13/2020 Q&A Can the Wayward Spouse Ever Gain Their Respect Back? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Do I Approach Our Vacation Sleeping Plan? 8/13/2020 Q&A Was Her Behavior Justified? 8/13/2020 Q&A Is It Ever Okay for the Wayward Spouse to Contact the Affair Partner to Apologize for Their Behavior Towards Them? 8/13/2020 Q&A What Should My Next Move Be? 8/13/2020 Q&A What Would You Advise Regarding My Living Situation? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Can I Heal When I Still Feel I Don't Have Full Disclosure and May Never Get It? 8/13/2020 Hope Rising 2020 Announcement 8/11/2020 Q&A Is It Okay to Have Sexual Fantasies of My Wife? 8/07/2020 Q&A Is My Husband Minimizing His Highly Sexual Affair? 8/07/2020 Q&A Was This an Emotional Affair? 8/07/2020 Q&A How Do We Recover When There Was a Sexual Assault? 8/07/2020 Q&A What Can I Do about My Husband's Recovery? 8/07/2020 Q&A Is He Still Intentionally Lying to Me and Not Telling Me Everything? 8/07/2020 Q&A What Do We Do If the Affair Partner Will Not Go Away? 8/07/2020 Q&A How Should We React to Insensitivity? 8/06/2020 Q&A Are Polygraphs Helpful and What Types of Questions Are Recommended? 8/06/2020 Q&A Do Wayward Spouses Sometimes Use Marriage Deficits to Justify an Affair and Ending a Marriage? 8/06/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…151617181920212223…next ›last »