All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Problem with Forgiveness How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it The Power of Small Groups 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 4957 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A When Will the Urge to Snoop End? 7/02/2020 Q&A How Do I Give 100% to My Mate during the Hard Moments? 7/02/2020 Q&A How Do We Stop All-Or-Nothing Thinking? 7/02/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When the Wayward Spouse Remains Hidden? 7/02/2020 Q&A How Do We Deal With Deflection and Blame? 7/02/2020 Q&A How Do I Respond to My Wife When She Assumes I Had an Emotional Relationship With a Coworker? 7/02/2020 Q&A What Should We Do With New Surprising Triggers? 7/02/2020 Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Entering Into a Contract on a New Home Early in Recovery? 7/02/2020 Q&A What Happens If a Husband and Wife Differ on What Constitutes Out of Line Behavior? 7/02/2020 Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Finding the Right Therapist? 7/02/2020 Q&A How Can I Trust a Man That Has Cheated Most of Our Marriage? 6/25/2020 Q&A How Can I Tell If It's the Hurt and Pain or If She Really Wants a Divorce? 6/25/2020 Q&A How Do I Remain Positive about Moving Forward? 6/25/2020 Q&A What Are Some Exercises We Could Use to Help Us Let Go and Move Forward? 6/25/2020 Q&A How Can I Prevent Resentment and Bitterness Forming in My Heart? 6/25/2020 Q&A How Do I Know If My Spouse Is Being Genuine? 6/25/2020 Q&A How Do We Reach Full Disclosure If My Wife Doesn’t Remember the Details? 6/25/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When My Husband Won't Stick to the Agreement? 6/25/2020 Q&A Could Overwhelming Sadness Be Anger in Disguise? 6/25/2020 Q&A Could I Have Broken the Cycle Before My Spouse Strayed? 6/25/2020 Surviving Infidelity Part 2: What Didn’t Work For Unfaithful Spouses 6/24/2020 Q&A What Am I Trying to Save Here? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Build Trust with My Wayward Spouse? 6/19/2020 Q&A My Wife Says She Didn’t Mean to Hurt Me. How Do I Respond to This? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is It Possible for the Wayward Spouse to Recover from the Affair If They Don't Really Grieve the Loss of the Relationship? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Explain the Pain I’m Going Through, from the Betrayal Trauma My Husband Caused, to My Children? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Can These Two Programs Be Helpful in Such a Mess of a Situation? 6/19/2020 Q&A If My Spouse Is Going through the Hope for Healing Course, Should I Expect to See His Emotions Roller Coaster like Mine? 6/19/2020 Q&A Do You Have Any Suggestions on Forgiving Someone You Can't Work through Things With? 6/19/2020 Q&A Do I Quit Expressing My Hurt, Asking Questions, and Pray for Peace in Our Remaining Years? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Fall in Love with My Husband Again? 6/19/2020 Q&A Are We Doing Enough to Help Our Situation? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is This Too Much to Overcome? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Concern during Our Intensive Weekend? 6/19/2020 Q&A Does My Husband Really Have Only a Sex Addiction? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is Going No Contact with the Affair Partner Suggested or Discussed during Hope for Healing? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Do to Prevent Flashbacks of Photos I Have Seen? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is It Possible to Forgive a Person but Not Forgive Their Actions? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Feel Connected to My Sons Again so I Don't Take This out on Them? 6/19/2020 Q&A Did My Husband Prefer His Affair Partner over Me? 6/18/2020 Q&A Can You Explain Compartmentalization in General and in This Type of Situation Specifically? 6/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle Seeing My Affair Partner in Public? 6/18/2020 Q&A Is Overcoming an Affair Similar to Overcoming Alcohol Addiction? 6/18/2020 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 6/17/2020 Q&A How Do We Handle Flooding? 6/10/2020 Q&A How Do I Help Someone That Won't Come Clean? 6/10/2020 Q&A How Do I Move Forward with This Feeling That I'm Not Safe? 6/10/2020 Q&A Can You Define What Respect Is from the Male Point of View and Why Males Want Respect from Our Spouses? 6/10/2020 Q&A How Do We Move Forward If My Mate Is Hard-Hearted and Has Yet to Repent? 6/10/2020 Q&A How Can I Apply What I Learned from a past Traumatic Experience to Deal with the Pain of Reminders in My Marriage Relationship Now? 6/10/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…181920212223242526…next ›last »
