All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Could You? 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Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 4912 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is It Common for the Wayward Spouse to Not Know 'Why' This Far in Recovery? 9/24/2020 Q&A Should My Husband Find Another Job to Protect Himself from Relapse? 9/24/2020 Q&A Is It Wrong to Avoid Contact with In-Laws since My Wayward Husband Villainized Me to Them? 9/24/2020 Q&A How Do I Move Forward and Continue with Recovery? 9/24/2020 Q&A What Attracts a Younger Man to an Older, Unattractive Woman? 9/24/2020 Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy for the Unfaithful 9/23/2020 Q&A Does Anyone Know the Name of What My Spouse Does to Keep from Answering a Question with the Truth? 9/22/2020 Q&A Is Soliciting Prostitutes Always Due to an Addiction? 9/22/2020 Q&A How Do I Turn off Rumination without Getting Validation from My Husband? 9/22/2020 Q&A How Do You Handle Ambivalence without Being Co-Dependent? 9/22/2020 Q&A Is There a Way to Determine the Difference between an Affair Being Motivated by Revenge as Opposed to the Wayward Spouse Justifying an Affair or Are They One in the Same? 9/22/2020 Q&A How Do I Begin to Deal with This Being True? 9/22/2020 Q&A How Do I Get over the Constant Reminder and Trigger? 9/22/2020 Q&A How Do I Find a Happy Medium Where I Can Learn to Be Myself Again, While Still Connecting with Him and Learning to Trust Him Again? 9/22/2020 Q&A Is It Common to Loose Feelings for Your Wayward Spouse? 9/22/2020 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Damage of the Internet? 9/22/2020 Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy for the Betrayed 9/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Recover from My Anger Resulting from an Unhealthy Recovery Process? 9/10/2020 Q&A Would We Be Wrong to Cut off a Child Born as a Result of the Affair to Save Our Marriage? 9/10/2020 Q&A Why Isn't There Acknowledgement That Infidelity Is a Form of Abuse? 9/10/2020 Q&A Will I Ever See My Husband as ‘Mine’ Again? 9/03/2020 Q&A What Factors Are Important When Deciding If the Wayward Spouse Needs to Leave a Job to Distance from the Affair Partner? 9/03/2020 Q&A How Can These Memories Be Recovered? 9/03/2020 Q&A Should the Wayward Spouse Contact the Affair Partner When an STD Has Been Diagnosed? 9/03/2020 Q&A My Wife Is Considering a Revenge Affair. What Should I Do? 9/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Get to the Truth? 9/02/2020 Q&A Will the Same Debilitating Pain Continue to Happen over the Years? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Do I Give up This Need That Is Always in the Back of My Mind? 9/02/2020 Q&A When Is It Appropriate to Communicate to My Spouse That Their Behavior Is Not Acceptable? 9/02/2020 Q&A What Guidelines Can I Share for Friends or Family Who Are Trying to Be Supportive? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Can Any Person Not Know Why They Have Done Something? 9/02/2020 Q&A Is There a Time to Reconcile with Friends Involved in the Affair? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Do I Process My Husband's Behavior While We Were Divorced? 9/02/2020 Q&A Should I Be Working on Being Strong Enough to Leave? 9/02/2020 Q&A Can You Please Give Me Some More Information on a Written Disclosure? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Is It Possible to Compartmentalize the Way My Husband Did? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Long Do I Put up with My Wife's Ambivalence? 9/02/2020 Q&A What Can I Do If I Now Have Too Much Detail? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Can We Make the Pictures Disappear? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Do We Get past Both Betrayals? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Do You Deal with Your Own Parents and Siblings Not Supporting Your Reconciliation? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Do I Get past Him Having Sex with Another Person? 9/02/2020 Q&A Could His Early Experience Have Played a Part in His Affair and His Attitude Toward Sex Now? 9/02/2020 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Husband Still Cannot Recommit to the Marriage? 9/02/2020 Q&A Should I Spend the Last Best Years of My Life Married, Surviving Infidelity, or Divorced? 9/02/2020 Q&A Would It Be Harmful to Ask If, and for How Long, There May Have Been Flashbacks or Memories of a Physical Affair? 9/02/2020 Q&A How Long Is Too Long for Grieving? 9/02/2020 Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Spouse to Comfort the Wayward Spouse? 8/27/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with This New Information That I Apparently Am Incompatible with Her Now? 8/27/2020 Q&A Am I Overreacting or Is My Husband Not Taking Responsibility? 8/27/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…141516171819202122…next ›last »
