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After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need.

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is My Spouse's Attitude Preventing Limerence from Fading?	3/04/2021
	Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Shame over My Husband's Thoughts?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Can I Ever Feel Love Again for Her If I'm Feeling Trapped in This Marriage?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Can Cuddling with His Roommate Be Platonic?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Can You Go into More Detail about the 'Lonely Hearts Club' Affair?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Why Does He Keep Reaching Out to Me If He Is Still in the Affair?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Should I Ask about All the Media and Locations They Shared?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Why Am I So Afraid to Be Happy?	3/04/2021
	Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for the Ways I Reacted as the Betrayed?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Is Being Immature or a Pastors Kid a Legitimate Reason for Making This Mistake?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Will I Ever Love and Desire My Husband Again?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Why Is My Ex-Husband Now Playing the Victim?	3/04/2021
	Q&A Could My Husband Be Done with Recovery?	3/04/2021
	Q&A What Is Attacking Classified As?	2/23/2021
	Q&A How I Can Move Forward and Get past the Feeling That I Don’t Have the Full Story?	2/23/2021
	Q&A How Do We Move Forward When He’s Still Holding on to Resentment Towards Me and I’m the Betrayed?	2/23/2021
	Q&A What More Can I Do to Become Safe for Her and Rebuild Our Relationship?	2/11/2021
	Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling like My Husband Needs to Own up to the Affair to People in His Life?	2/11/2021
	Q&A Am I Wrong to Demand Him to Quit His Job for My Own Healing?	2/11/2021
	Q&A When Will I Stop Asking Questions?	1/28/2021
	Q&A Is It Normal for an Unfaithful Spouse Get Upset Whenever Asked to Talk about the Inappropriate Behavior?	1/28/2021
	Q&A Am I Abnormal for Struggling with Healing?	1/28/2021
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Reclaiming Things Associated with the Affair?	1/28/2021
	Q&A How Can I Remain Supportive and Loving While Also Protecting Myself?	1/28/2021
	Q&A How Do I Know What Is Too Much Information?	1/28/2021
	Q&A Can You Help Me Better Understand the Three Stages of Love?	1/28/2021
	Q&A How Do I Deal with the Conflict inside of Me?	1/25/2021
	Q&A How Soon Is Too Soon to Let Yourself Forgive, Hope, and Rebuild?	1/25/2021
	Q&A What Happens If I or Both My Husband and I Run into the Affair Partner in Public?	1/25/2021
	Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Know My Husband's Yellow-Light Behaviors?	1/25/2021
	Q&A Can I Trust That He Is Being Honest?	1/20/2021
	Q&A Why Can't I Forgive One of the Multiple Affairs?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Do I Stop Seeking the ‘20% Guy’?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Can I Get My Husband to Understand the Importance of Boundaries?	1/20/2021
	Q&A Is It Appropriate to Abstain from Sex until Safety and Emotional Intimacy Have Been Established?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Can I Heal When I'm Sharing My Wife with a Coworker?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Can I Regain Sexual Attraction to My Husband?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Do I Salvage My Spiritual Relationship?	1/20/2021
	Q&A What Should I Do with the Evidence?	1/20/2021
	Q&A Why Did the Wayward Spouse Want to Reconcile, but Is Now in a Relationship with His Affair Partner Post-Divorce?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Do I Handle This Lapse in Motherhood When I’ve Been Needed?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Do I Get to the Point That I Feel Good about the Way That I Look?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Do I Stay in a Marriage with My Husband Who Won't Open up with Me?	1/20/2021
	Q&A Are My Husband and I Trying to Do the Impossible?	1/20/2021
	Q&A Should I Stay in the Marriage for My Kids?	1/20/2021
	Q&A Can We Heal Even When He Still Can’t Give Me a Full Account of His Affair?	1/20/2021
	Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Reconcile with My Husband and Be Close to My Sisters?	1/20/2021
	Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Stop Seeing Her Affair Partner?	1/14/2021
	Q&A What Type of Affair Does This Qualify As?	1/14/2021
	Q&A Why Do I Still Feel like Its My Fault She Had a Affair? Is This Normal for Betrayed Men?	1/14/2021